Should i take her back?

Question

me and my girlfriend been together for 7 yrs. which 8 we have lived together, 5 months ago we got into an economic binge and we lost our apartment. she moved back with her parents with our 5 yr son and 10 yr old stepdaughter and i moved with my parents supposedly till we both got on our feet. but she deceived me and moved out and never told and she wouldnt give me the addresse so i can go by and see my son which made me feel betrayed. now 6 months later she asking me to forgive her and take her back but i dont know what she has been doing the past six months and at first i would ask her why she did it and she would say she was scared of me and my temper that i needed to change my aspect of life but why would she want me back now if she dont know if i changed or not. honestly to me she was brainwashed by smooth talker and once he got tired of her he let her go and now she wants me back, even though i could be wrong the feeling is very strong.i have played her in the past but she forgave me supposedly and we tried working things out but i dont feel like she is not being tottaly honest of why she moved out on the sneak tip, or why she wont answer her phones at times or why she would disappear from saturday till monday im i wrong for thinking so negative ? do you think i would be wrong if i just walk away

Answer 1

she forgave u in the past .. i think u should give her a chance if u still love her ..try ,you have nothing to loose but make her earn ur trust back..if she did then she worth the effort done..yasmin,egypt

Answer 2

Well it definitely would NOT be wrong if you decided to just walk away (as long as your not walking out of your sons life). However I think that you should try to make it work. You don't have to just jump into a deep relationship like you had with her before but tak eit slowly and build up the trust. That was one helluva story and if I were you I wouldn't even hesitate to ask her what happened and all the other questions in your question details and on your mind because what she did was completely wrong. But I think you should try to make it work. However, don't make your son be the only excuse for you staying together with her. Hope I helped !