Should i tell my bff that i had s*x?

Question

im only 13 but i dont know if i should be kept to my self at school or not.

Answer 1

your 13 and had s*x.....wow.

yes. I would tell my best friend.

Just make sure she is your best friend.

Answer 2

Believe it or not, having s*x is a very private matter. It's nobody's business, unless you are so immature  that you feel you have to brag in order too fit in.Keep it to yourself.

Answer 3

unless it was bad or embarrassing why wouldn't you?

Answer 4

even though your best friends, its gonna get around. 13 is bad age to get a rep like that. girls are gonna look at your bad, and guys are gonna think  your easy.

Answer 5

Um...sure tell them you had s*x...

Why is this in the pregnancy section?

Answer 6

yes keep it a secret,

cause then one day if yall get into a fight

she might go around telling people that

you're a [h o e] or a [s k a n k]

that happened to this girl i know

now everybody knows her as the school [h o e]

Answer 7

s*x is an intimate act between two people (usually!)  

No need to 'share' this info with your bff.  I am 28 and single, but when I do have s*x I don't share the news with others.  It's not their business

Answer 8

Umm.. it's up to you if you want to share it or not.. and again I ask.. why is this in the pregnancy section (cause if your pregnant.. I'm sure everyone at school will know anyways) but I hope your not at 13.. again it's your choice if you want to tell people or not. xo

Answer 9

if you trust your friend, go ahead.  But why is a 13 year old having s*x?

Answer 10

i dunno...  being that young, it might backfire.  i seen a lot of girls in middle school say they were best friends and then next year hate each others guts.  besides...  what will this bff gain from knowing you had s*x?  i know there is a trust issue in there, but some things that can backfire on you should be kept secret.

Answer 11

well s*x is something that is personal, not something you go and report to your friends about. and at 13 i would not tell anyone i was having s*x because everyone would think i am hot in the a.s.s and easy. let that be your last time having s*x until you are 18 or else everyone will think you're a little s**t.