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Should i tell my husband that i kiss someone about 3 years ago.?

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well, i kiss this guy i know about three years ago, i never slept with him. and i no longer see him anymore. should i tell my husband?

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  1. No... Don't tell him now.It'll break the trust.


  2. Just let it go ....... after 3 years you want to confess that for what? Hope u learned from this.

  3. It's amazing how many people told you  to continue to lie. The truth will set you free....

  4. Well I would say NO WAY YOU TELL HIM.

    It might be better for you to by letting go of it, but he in return will never forgive you. Men are not like us girl, he will hold it against it for the rest of your life if he says he has forgiven you.  

  5. no... dont invite for troubles... what good it will do if you tell it now..keep the lesson and forget it

  6. No, why cause such a fuss over something that has been kept a secret this long. Just leave it be. How would you react if he told you he kissed someone. You would be mad. Just let dead dogs lie...

  7. We're you married when you did? Why did it come up now?

  8. No. it's way past and not even an issue.

    Just don't allow yourself to go there with someone else in the future.

  9. h**l yes you need to tell him, it is something that is obviously haunting you or you wouldn't post it.  Leaving something out there that will eat away at you is terrible.....You need to tell him and ask for forgiveness.....when he forgives you, it will feel great!!!

  10. no way.....that was a h**l of a long time ago

  11. Nope.  LESS HISTORY, MORE MYSTERY.  All telling him will do is mess with his head.

  12. h**l NO... Why would you want to do that???

  13. Whay would it matter? It wouldn't make it go away.All that would do is open up a can worms and then you'd have all kinds of problems.Sometimes it doesn't matter when it happened, it's just the thought of being played whether it be a kiss, s*x or flirting.I wouldn't say anything.Don't do it.

  14. No, don't tell him. The only reason you'd be telling him would to dispelling your own guilt, so don't tell him.

  15. No, why bring it up now.  It will only cause you pain and grief.  He may then feel inclined to return the favor.  Forget about it and move on.

  16. DONT TELL HIM NOTHING YOUR GOIN CAUSE PROBLEMS PLUS YOU DONT NO IF HE DID IT TO YOU.HEART THAT DOSENT SEE DOSENT FEEL.

  17. would you want to know if you husband kissed a woman 3 years ago?

    If yes then tell

    If no the let it go and pray for forgiveness and move on

  18. I don't think so. What good would come out of it? He is going to stop trusting you if you do.  

  19. No...duh!  what good would come from telling him??  you feel guilty (which you should) but getting that guilt off your shoulders will do no good

  20. unless you are ready for some drama, a lack of trust, alot of questions about then and now, and a whole bunch of other mess, i would have to say no!

    forgive yourself and move on...if you need to get it out, write it down on some paper and burn it or something!

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