Should i tell my mom the truth?

Question

i lied and told my mother that i was over my friends house and i was really at my boyfriends house and he got me pregnant. what should i do?

Answer 1

you probably should tell her...

she would find out eventually

Answer 2

Yes, you should definitely tell her the truth. I mean she's going to find out anyway sooner or later. I'm sure it would be best if you told her now.

Answer 3

better to tell her now. she'll appreciate your honesty.

Answer 4

you should tell your mom the truth.

she going to find out when your stomach starts growing anyways then shell be mad that you didnt tell her.

hope i helped.

Best of Luck :]

Answer 5

you should tell your mom..

i found out that moms find out

everything anyway..

i think that is rele the only

thing you can do at this point..

good luck!

Answer 6

TELL YOUR MOM NOW!!!

If you don't, she will find out soon enough. Trust me!

Answer 7

Umm I think you should do the obvious, and tell her.

Answer 8

You should both sit down and talk about it. Say that you lied because you were afraid you'd get in trouble. Tell her your sorry and don't forget to cry thats always a classic ;)

Answer 9

Tell her what you did, and get the punishment you deserve.

Answer 10

Woah, you got a bit of a problem there...

I'm sure she won't really care where you got pregnant, or when, just that you are pregnant. Why don't you forget that she thinks you were somewhere when you weren't, and focus on dealing with the situation in hand. You mum needs to help you out, and you need to tell her so that can happen.

Answer 11

Well if you are young then you should probably abort the baby but if you are in a good relationship then keep it. just blurt it out ot your mum but say ' i think im pregnant and im scared .. please help' that will soften her up first and make her more concerned than angry. if she asks dates etc just say 'does that matter i just need help on what to do'

Answer 12

you should tell her that your pregnant! but even if you don't, she will find out eventually once your stomach starts growing

Answer 13

the lie you told is minor to this, you have to tell her you're pregnant and the sooner the better, for your health and the baby's.

good luck

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Answer 14

Definitely. Your mom deserves to know.

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Answer 15

Tell her

Answer 16

I never realized the summer was too long. Someone is pregnant,or want to have s*x with their mothers, or whatever.  I just hope some of these are jokes.  It is really sad some of you have nothing better to do with your time.  What about the kids that need help.    

Answer 17

get an abortion, she need never know

Answer 18

Yes, sweet. Tell her the truth before she finds out another way. She would much rather hear the truth from you than from another adult.

Take care, and good luck with the baby.

Answer 19

Yes you have to tell your mother sooner or later becasue she will find out anyways when your belly grows or you are puking alot.  So yes tell her i would not neccesarily tell her about sleeping over your oyfriends tho.  just tell her at one point or another your got pregnant.

Answer 20

well um what else can u do other then tell ur mom the truth u can't lie to her she will find out sooner or later so tell her soon so that she can help u through this and tell ur bf  

Answer 21

well you really need too tell her your prego - she will find out either way and I'm sure she  would like too hear it from you!

DONT tell her you were at your bfs - why does she need too know that? then she would also be mad for lying. stick with this one obstacle first!

p.s my mum said she wont be mad - just dissapointed! so give her some space whilst she comes round too it.

Answer 22

You should come clean and tell her the truth. You'll feel better for doing it and she will respect you for being honest.

Answer 23

tell her you are pregnant, you need to get prenatal care.  

Answer 24

The lie about where you were seems minor at this point. You need to tell her you r pregnant. Its stressful when its planned and you are in a position to be a parent, dont go thru this alone.  She has always been your mom and always will be. I am sure you are afraid you have dissappointed her and that may be so but its what kids and parents both do , we arent perfect.  Just human. Trust her and her love for you. She may even flip a bit but its because she is concerned for you and what you may be up against. She loves you and wants what is best no matter what, give her the benefit of the doubt, she'll be alright. the sooner you tell her the better for both of you.  Good luck sweetheart and God bless.  PS the lie about where you were is nothing compared to the lie you are keeping now- TELL HER

Answer 25

It would be best if you tell her the truth, that way you can gain her trust again. If you let her find out on her own it may be harder for her to trust you because you lied to her by telling her you went over to your friends house when you didn't and you didn't have the courage to face her and tell her about the situation afterwards.

Answer 26

Absolutely tell her you are pregnant right away. The sooner you get good prenatal care at a doctor, the better off you and the baby will be. If for some reason your mom wants to know where you were when you got pregnant, then be honest. Otherwise, don't bring it up. You, your boyfriend, and your family have more important things to be thinking about.