Should i tell my parents im havinq s*x ?

Question

so i started havinq s*x not to lonq aqo and i dont know if i should tell my parents my mom wouldnt take it as bad as my dad but she would still kill me shes always tellinq me not to let a quy touch me and to no have s*x till im married my best friend said i should tell then becuz condoms arent safe so i should qo on the pill...should i tell them,well atleast my mom...please help.

Answer 1

If you have a really good relationship with your mom then you should tell her. Tell you were thinking about getting some kind of birth control cause you want to have s*x. But wait how old are you first? If you are under age then you will hear yelling first of all, but it's better to be safe then sorry. Tell them, you weren't want your kids not to tell you.

Answer 2

I would just tell mom, dad really doesn't need to know & if your mom wants him to know; let her tell him herself. I think it would be best to tell your mom because now that you are sexually active you need to have pap smears done, and like you said, get on birth control. I suggest the nuvaring. It is a small flexible ring that you put in your v****a for 3 weeks and then take out the week of your period. It's really easy because there is no pill to remember, and there is no pill package to find (you could hide it from your father). If you are uncomfortable telling your parents that you are having s*x, but you still want on birth control; you could tell them that you are cramping really bad and are having really heavy periods. Birth control improves acne also! I hope everything works out for you!

Answer 3

You can go to a clinic , and your mom doesnt have to come with you...  and you can go to get Birth Control too.... but it is really up to you if you tell anyone , or your mom ...  

Answer 4

Yes you should tell your parents. It would be the mature thing to do. Plus birth control is a must when having s*x. I know it will be hard and they will be mad but it will really be better in the long run.

Answer 5

stop using Qs as Gs. theyre not the same thing, and its stupid.

Answer 6

at least u shouldnt lose ur virginity at this age

Answer 7

Yes. Your parents have a right to know since they are legally responsible for you.

Honestly, no form of birth control is completely safe other than abstinence. So if you don't want a kid, don't ope your legs.

Answer 8

well your mom is going to find out sooner or later, so if i was you i would just tell her, there not ganna hate you, and she wold put you on the pill and advise you what to do and what not to do

Answer 9

I mean if you and your mom have a good relationship then go ahead its always best to be honest then not be because everything thats done in the dark always comes to light trust!

However, you can continue to use the condoms and don't stop using it even if you do go on the pill there are too many diseases out there to even chance it. Your parents don't necessarily have to know that you are on the pill you can go to a local planned parenthood and get it prescribed. Get there insurance also go with a envelope with your name addressed on it as if it was mailed to you from school or anywhere and a photo id. Its always best to go to a real private doctor but since your young PPH is ok too. Good luck with your decision

Answer 10

are you pregnant?

Answer 11

You should tell both your parents.

Answer 12

ya you should. I would get put on the pill ASAP. Condoms are a good contraceptive, but getting on the pill would be best. Princess is right, they would be more mad to find out you are pregnant and i would point that out in your discussion. I find it mature for you wanting to tell them, unless you are 14 or 15. Then i would ground you for life if you were my daughter! Good luck!

Answer 13

Personally, i think it's riduculous to put a child on the pill.  you didn't mention your age.  If you are a minor, it's not even legal for you to be having s*x in the first place.

I don't know what your local family planning office would do if you went there to talk to them about birth control, but i don't think i'd have the guts to ask my parents to pay for the pill if i was a kid. (and i'm not, but i was, and i remember it well).

s*x is a very emotional thing... and girls can become very attached to guys (who usually just have s*x for the sake of s*x).... so the girl usually ends up getting hurt.  

I think that we are ready for s*x when we are emotionally and financially prepared for the consequences (because there are sometimes consequences).

take care of yourself, and maybe listen to your mom

Answer 14

You need to tell someone! You need to get on some kind of bc to make sure you don't get pregnant. You think they will be mad about you having s*x, imagine if you told them you were pregnant!