Should i think she's a flirt?

Question

My partner , son and I have just moved states and are trying to make friends and start a new life. We have very nice neighbours in which my partner really gets along with the man. I liked the girl up until this weekend. We went riding, bbq and so on with them. Every time I left the party area to look after our son or something I came back to this girl chatting and laughing with my partner. She would go over to sit beside him and was making up little jokes with him. I gotannoyedd but I don't know if I'm over reacting because of being a bit insecure at the moment or if I really should worry about her being a flirt.

Answer 1

awwwwwww lol thats cute

Answer 2

Keep your eyes open.  She could just be trying to keep him company until you get back, she could be trying to make her husband jealous (he might have complimented you, and she is jealous of you), or she just might be a tramp.  You need to observe the situation more.  

Don't show any insecurity to your hubby.  That will be a turn off to him.  Just ask him casually, if he thought she might be a bit too friendly for a married woman.  If he says no, ask him how he would feel if you acted like that.  Then just drop it.  Whatever you do, do not nag him on and on about it.  That would make her look more interesting to him. (because he will think that you are intimidated by her)

Answer 3

As long as you can trust your husband or boyfriend, don't worry about girls who are flirting with him.

Answer 4

i think everything is fine. they were being nice.  

Answer 5

Always trust your instincts.  Hopefully it will turn out to be nothing.  Love your husband and limit alone time with the newbies.

Answer 6

As things stand now, it may be a little flirtatious but it's still innocent.  Remember you may not trust her, but do you trust your partner?  Give your partner the benefit of the doubt whilst realising that she's the person initiating the personal encounters and not him.

Also, it is entirely possible that she doesn't mean to be flirtatious but, rather, friendly.  I'd wait it out and see what happens whilst not acting all suspicious. It may be that they've both found *only* a new friend in each other or they may not be interested in talking in two weeks from now. I think it's too soon to judge.

- Pepper.

Answer 7

wow tis is bit complicated. maybe she's being extra friendly with ur partner or maybe she really is a flirt. try talking with ur partner. tell him wat to think of her, and see wat he says. or maybe the next time u're over to their place, be near ur partner as much as possible and if u have to be move away fr ur hubby, like when lookin for ur son, ask her to come along. and try to cut down on goin over to thier place or inviting them over cos we can never really know someone intentions. better be safe then sorry.

Answer 8

You are way jealous. They were being friendly. Get over it.

Answer 9

you will only learn the truth with time...if you trust your partner then you don't need to worry at all, because at the end of the day you'll know that he's faithful to you...

and anyway, some people do have a habit of being over-friendly...just watch over the whole thing quietly...don't make a fuss...

Answer 10

Self esteem, baby! You need some.

Answer 11

i'm the same i had a similar situation.. keep a distance if you don't feel right about it

it probably best to stay away

~MeL~

Answer 12

dont worryyyyy..

chill out!

if he wasnt touching her or makin out with her then it's fine.

give ur husband a good s*x life if he wants it and lots of love, and ur set.

Answer 13

I guess time will tell if it's something more or if it's just her personality.  I sometimes feel more comfortable talking to men than I do women and I'm a happily married woman with no desire to cheat, flirt, or do anything inappropriate.  Besides, nothing says you have to keep hanging out with these people.  When it all comes down to it, the most important people in your life are your family.