Should i try and get her back? ?

Question

Hi I'm thirty years old and found out in may that i have a rare form of skin cancer , i made the decision to not tell anyone including my fiancee.Ive been tired and grumpy and living a lie so she packed up and left me, ive told her now and says she doesn't no what she wants. shall i just forget her or fight to get her back? its a pain full time for me right now any advise??

Answer 1

just concentrate on your health for now. maybe she'll come back but you don;t have to wait for her. if she comes back, that'd be good but if she doesn't, it'll b good that you found out what kind of a person she is before getting married to her. eat healthy, exercise, take medicine and be around your parents, friends and siblings if possible. get well soon!!

Answer 2

You didn't mention whether or Not it's life threatening however, you should have told her about this because morally it's not right to keep such a thing from your fiancee. Now she is gone and you guyz are broken up. Don't you think that telling her now she may think you have made this all up?

Find a time when you're Not grumpy or moody. Call her up & meet with her. Explain everything to her including your feelings. Leave it on her whether she wants the relationship or not. As for yourself, try and get over having a not so good attitude. If this is life threatening, you want to live the rest of your years leaving a positive lasting impression. If this is only a condition then so what. People will either like or won't. I wish you well. Good luck.

Answer 3

if you guys were with ea other a long time, i would. i think u should fight for someone you invested a lot in, but a lot matters with her, if she has not moved on yet. please answer my question. its in all caps about my bf belongings.