Should i turn him in?

Question

i had a Friend that was asking around to see if he could hire someone to plant drugs on his ex or worse so he could get custody of his kids so he didn't have to pay child support i have since cut ties to him but worry he might still do it what would u do

Answer 1

Yeah turn him in.

Answer 2

You could anonymously tell his ex about his "plans".

Answer 3

YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

Answer 4

deffinately

Answer 5

Turn him in! Save the wife and the kids.

DO it anonymously, but if he finds out, get a restraining order. He could try to kill you for turning him in. This is serious, this guy is dangerous.

Answer 6

Wow, that has to be one of those "trust" type situations.. I guess it comes down to whether he would be a better guardian for his children than his EX, either way it's out of your hands.. If He's asking around like you say someone will either pick up on it, and find him help or talk him out of it...

Answer 7

Yes, do something like call his ex from a pay phone so it can't be traced.

Answer 8

My first concern is the children. Desperate people do desperate things.

I think I would call child social services and let them know. I would do it anonomously...but leave a contact number if proof is needed to protect the children. If you know the people he is asking or are friends with any of them, maybe all of you can help these kids. I am an advocate for child advocacy!

Answer 9

What I would do is warn his ex. Then tell her to go file an order of protection for fear that he may try to cause harm to her and her children. Make sure you state to his ex that you are only concerned about the children and nothing more. Especially if she is a good mother to her children. Then tell her exactly what her ex told you. She will understand a little more. If he is only looking to not pay child support and wants to put his children through agony by taking their mother away and putting the children through all of that watching their mother get arrested in front of them that's a horrible man! So for the children, I would tell his ex. God knows what he would do if he had the children.

He doesn't want to pay support. Come on now! That is not a real man in my book. Tell her not to forget to get a police report of it all so she can take that to the courts to show them what kind of person he maybe. You can also tell her you want to remain anonymous. Good Luck to you and the babies!!!!!

Answer 10

tell him

plz plz plz dont do it

then morally ur not responsible for nehting else that happens

hes got a gud plan tho

Answer 11

Turn him in and protect the people he was gonna do bad stuff to

Answer 12

Yes, you should. confidentially of course, someone like that could be capable of anything. Of course, what's his side of the story? Is she a bad mom? Think of all sides first before you do anything.

Answer 13

i would ignore it for now but keep tabs on what's going on with his ex. talk to him and record him saying that he planned to plant the drugs and why. or get it in an email. that way if you see that his ex has been caught with drugs, you can go to the police with proof that it's all a lie.

Answer 14

The inclusion/exclusion of evidence rules can vary with what a judge had for breakfast. If you find out this thing has been done, you can ask the judge in private what they want to do about your Amicus testimony. Regards, Larry.

Answer 15

Yes you should turn him in. I would call child protective services and report himand do it anonymously to protect yourself and just let them know that the father is threatening to "plant drugs on the mother unknowingly" so he won't have to pay child support. Doing so ,would not only help the courts decide who is the better parent, but also these days you have to take threats like that serious ! you have to think of the kids and their future . Good to know that you have cut all ties with that b*****d.

Answer 16

turn him in IF he does it, find out by talking to his friends or just having a casual convo with him about his life & how his kids are. In the mean time try to convince him not to and pay his child support.

He sounds like a very unpleasant person. Turn him in if he does it, it involves kids so your not being a "rat".

Please take my advice, hope this helps

Answer 17

i would turn him in thats mean to let someone have there kids taken away and doing time for something to do, i wouldnt care if its stupid to tell people, what do you think the right thing to do is, hopefully stand up for whats right and not let someone get in trouble for something they didnt do.

Answer 18

turn him in but make sure they keep your identity anonymous. i dont know him but imagine what he can do to you if he found out!

Answer 19

yeah.  you should go to your local police precinct first, and see what they tell you.  I dont advise telling the ex just yet until you get real advice, because things could go down wrong.   See what they say.   Also, if you can remember, log it down on a paper what he says exactly on what date and what time.  This really helps to give you credit in case something should happen.  Most people dont keep around scraps of paper and notes, but if you do this, you will always have on hand some sort of evidence.  

I would do it as soon as possible, especially since children are involved, and her own freedom.  

Answer 20

Tell the cops. The jerk would do that to the mother of his kids so that he doesn't have to pay support. TURN HIM IN!!! And kudos to you for ditching the scum.

Answer 21

yes turn him in

imagine if you were his ex

that would be absolutely awful

Answer 22

turn him in and worn the wife

Answer 23

Turn him in. Totally, No second thoughts.

Think of the kids =/

-Meg

Answer 24

I would let the ex and the police know. What he's talking about is a crime and says a lot about his character. That kind of person doesn't need custody of his kids.

Answer 25

If somehow you could give heads up to the ex.  that would be nice.  Send a letter anonymously.  

Answer 26

turn him in. freindship is important but ur morals are mroe important. and if u turn him in i think he will stay in jail a lil less tiem if he gets caught then its gonna be long

Answer 27

that is totally wrong you should turn him in and you should tell his x. i am glad to hear that you are not his friend any more he was such a man when he laid down and made that baby now he needs to be a man and help take care of the baby and i have news for him he don't want to pay child support but he wants custody of the kid he is crazy he needs some real help. cause child support is nothing compared to raising a kid.

Answer 28

Yes turn him in for the sake of those innocent children!!!!

Answer 29

Pls Yes! turn him in, and let the wife know so she can protect herself and her children.  Im so sorry you have to be put in this position.  But pls do what is best for the children involved

Answer 30

Yes. Do it anonymously, though.

Answer 31

yes you should. Its not right for him to do that and everyone will be safer if the police know.