Should i turn the other cheek?

Question

my husband has been cheating, as of now he has all the signs, i do know because i have been married over 40 years. should i let him, and just turn the other cheek? he has denied this and says i am crazy, but i think when you have been married long, you do know when things change.

Answer 1

You should never turn the other cheek about something like this. If you are unhappy about what your partner is doing you should never have to live with it no matter how many years you have been married. I know it's a cliche, but you should look into a P.I. to get some real evidence to confront him with. No one should have to put up with anything like that.

Hope it Helps.

Good Luck with your Relationship!

Answer 2

Unless you are of the Feathered variety ,then it is no good coming on this section.

But a Leopard will not change his spots for anyone!!!!!!!!!

Answer 3

You can ask for advice on this subject till you're blue in the face.  You will get many different answers.   This isnt a situation any of us can tell you what you need to do in.   It comes down to you and how you feel.  40 years is a long time... do you really want to throw that away because of suspicions?   If he is indeed cheating, do you still want to throw away 40 years?  Do you want to start over again in the dating field?   It's been 40 years as a married woman?  

     You need to ask yourself if you can forgive him for his mistakes afterall he IS human AND male.  I personally couldnt sit by and let it continue happening, for me it wouldnt be the act it would be the lies covering it id find the most disconcerting.

         This truly is one that no matter how many people say stay, how many say leave or whatever other advice they've got to give, that you will have to dig deep inside and find the correct answer for you by yourself.

   I'd at least try counselling since the doubts are there  

Answer 4

There are so many answers to this.

What I would do is say this "I KNOW you are cheating, stop denying it, either we do something about this or you'll never see me again"

Something like that and just leave him unless of coarse he is willing to fix the relationship, if there is no improvement then I would stick to my word and just leave.

But then again, I dont know your exact situation.

I guess you could just turn the other cheek and get on with life, but whats the point if your unhappy about the situation.

No one deserves to be cheated on and walked all over like that. I wish you the best of luck.

Answer 5

Heck no. turning the other cheek would be like saying hey whatever you want to do is ok rather it hurts me or not. I would come up with a plan and follow through. Cant go with just your heart on this one have to use your head to. Good luck