Should i visit my boyfriend where he's staying at the hotel?

Question

ok my boyfriend lives 150 miles away from me when he comes to visit let's say every 4-5 months, he insisted that i come see him at the hotel, me as a christian didn't think it was a good idea. I like to have everyone point of view about issue

Answer 1

Like Happy Feet already told you, if you don't trust him and yourself, there is a trust problem, and where there is no trust there is no love... So think about it, you already answered your own question dear... Good luck!

Eric J.

Answer 2

Well this is very easy to answer, If you don't trust him (and yourself) and don't want to have s*x with him don't go to his room and meet him everywhere else. But what is the purpose to have a relation and to keep distance? How do you gone to handle it in the future?...

Happy to help !

Happy feet.

Answer 3

If you don't plan on having s*x with him don't go to his hotel room.

Answer 4

Is my opinion that you should never go against your personal standards, if you think that might compromise your integrity don’t go. Being alone with the guy you love/like is always risky if you don’t want to get in certain situations. It takes strong will but at the end you will be happy with yourself because you did the right thing.

Answer 5

If you do not trust him or yourself, then you can probably meet the hotel's poolside or lobby & you can stay in another room.

Answer 6

That's a very personal issue   that only you can resolve.  if you wouldn't be comfortable with going to his hotel then don't.

Answer 7

I would say that you should go visit him at the hotel.. If you only see him every 4-5 months then what's the harm?

Answer 8

hey karim,

you answered your own question better than any of us could.  you said you "don't think it'd be a good idea to visit him there".  why don't you ask him to visit at your house instead, where you'd hopefully feel more comfortable?  basically, if something doesn't feel right for you, then it probably isn't.  trust your instincts.