Should i wear my promise ring even though we are on a break?

Question

My fiancee gave me a promise ring for our 2 year anniversary which I wear every day. However, over the weekend she told me what wanted to take a break and sort through somethings that are going on at the time. I accepted that and told her to do what she needs to do. She took off her engagement ring but still had it. I was wondering if I should take off my promise ring that she gave me even though I am totally in love with her? I dont want her to think that I am angry and that I dont love her anymore. Also, I dont know if I should take back the engagement ring for the time until she decides what she wants. Please advise.

Answer 1

Does she want to get married to be married or does she want to get married because she loves you?  Same question for you.

The rings are the least of your concerns right now.

Sounds like she feels like she is on a runaway train.  Do something to take the pressure off of both of you so you can both be reminded it is just you two, and you both can work anything out.  There are no rules for "getting married", but the most successful partnerships are between two people who can communicate with each other.

  

Answer 2

No you should not as there is meaning behind  promise ring.  You have broken the promise to be together forever so why would you wear that ring that signifies unity?

Answer 3

If you are considering not wearing it, listen to that..... Do you think your b'f is wearing his?

I think if you're on a break don't wear it, see if you meet someone who doesn't need a "break"

Answer 4

What you're saying is that your relationship is so fragile that it relies on whom is wearing a metal ring?  

This is a serious symptom of a less-than-ready relationship for marriage.

Answer 5

Ok if you still want to wear your promise ring then do it... it will show her how committed you are to the relationship... and honestly I don't know how many times I took off my promise ring that my husband (then boyfriend) gave me because I was angry and frustrated just to put it on the next day because I was over it.. So don't take back her engagement ring unless she gives it back to you, because she may just truly need to figure out some things in her head and when she does it may be a bit embarrassing for her to have to ask if she can have her ring back..

Also make sure that she knows that you still love her.. don't be overbearing about though...

Good luck and don't worry.. if she is anything like me she will miss you (and the ring on her finger) and want it all back, just needed to breathe and think for a minute or two or a little while.