Should it really bother me

Question

I know my girlfriend for about 5 years before we got together and we been in a relation ship for just over a year now. When friends come round or when where having a party she always cuddling them. There one of are friends that g*y and she always cuddling him and kisses him and says she love him. She always been like this with him even before we started going out. She also use to cuddle me before we went out. It never use to bother me but now it does.

Answer 1

Aw hun, she cuddles this man because he is what you could term as safe. Your girl friend is not his type, there is no sexual attraction towards your girl friend from this man.

Don't worry, there is nothing to worry about or to be jealous about, this man likes men, not women.

Good Luck. X :-)  

Answer 2

i think you have been attacked by the green eyed monster, try to stop worrying about it. it is you she is with and if it is something that she has always done i cant see that you can really ask her to stop it because it suddenly makes you feel uncomfortable

Answer 3

I am a girl and I used to have the same problem as you, my boy friend was too touchy feely with other girls.

People like that try to make it seem as if theres something wrong with us for having an issue with thier behavior when infact the problem is with them!

Not all girls go around hugging all guys, and not all guys go around hugging all girls.

The chances are if you tell her to stop doing it she won't listen and will drive u mad! If I was you I would dump her get a new girl friend who only has friends that are girls and doesn't hug anyone but you. I tottally understand why you are angry!

The only other guys other than you that she is allowed to hug is her  brothers, dad, uncle , grandfather, or son or nephew.

She isn't a L*****n so it's not right for her to hug a g*y man, she's still straight right?

Answer 4

I have always found g*y people to be very tactile and loving in their relationships but I have never felt unsafe with anyone. Maybe your girlfriend senses the same thing and doesn't mean that you should see this as an attempt on her part to "flirt". Since he is g*y you certainly should have no cause for concern!

For some reason you are feeling insecure with your girlfriend, I think. It would help if you could figure out why and deal with that issue.

Best wishes, UK