GMTV debating whether men should or shouldn't be with their partners in childbirth? Some obstetrician wants fathers "banned" from the delivery room.
I'm sorry but I WANTED my partner there. I don't have a sister and my mum wasn't able to be there to support me. I couldn't afford to employ a Doula.
My partner is the person I feel closest to and I wanted him there to support me through what is essentially a very scary and difficult time.
Does anyone agree with me?
As far as "Oh I don't want him to see me screaming/see all the blood", I'm sorry but he did 50% of the baby-making, why should he get to stay outside and escape all the messy stuff!!! Plus if he loves you it won't make any difference if he sees you screaming or not! He should want to be there to support and comfort you.
My other half watched our son's birth and was fascinated, lol! It didn't faze him in the slightest. He was mega excited and kept nipping outside the phone people and tell them how it was going!
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