Should my 11 yr old daughter be wearing a Bcup push up bra that she got from her cuzins?

Question

Okk soo my 11 yaer old daughter has freakishly HUGE b***s for her age. she ia almost a C.! anyway, she gets all these bras from her cuzins and they have pretty big b***s too!! but theyare like total s***s so they wear push up braas!! then wen they grew out of them my daughter would get them! and she wears them everyday!!! should tht really be nessecary??

Answer 1

take her to nordstrom and get her fit for a bra. They will help find some bras that fit your daughter properly and they are a lot of styles that you may approve of.

Answer 2

no just she should have brest reductuion my daughter is 11 and she only has buds so she wears barely a bra wow ur daughter is cursed with really bad genes

Answer 3

I don't see what makes a push-up bra S****y in the first place.  I don't know what you use them for, but for me, that's called support.

Answer 4

first things first, using somebody elses inner garments is un hygenic.

secondly they may not be the right size for her . worn out , stretched elastic, etc.

and lastly , tell her to use something thats more suitable for her age. take her to a lingerie store and ask the shop assistant to advice her on the right kind of stuff for her age.

Answer 5

NO

Answer 6

You have one of two options- 1. Go buy her the kinds of bras you think are acceptable and stop accepting the ones from the cousins or 2. remove the padding from the bras yourself. Make a small slit in the bottom and pull out the padding. I would personally go with option #1.

Answer 7

Did you just call your nieces s***s?!

Answer 8

This sounds like it is written by a child, not a parent. I have never heard of the connection of push up bras and s***s though either, that's a new one on me. It sounds like you are jealous of someone elses chest size.

Answer 9

Ok just because you wear a pushup bra you are not a s**t! I have c cup b***s and i wear them. Ok its no nessecary its just maybe she needs them.

Answer 10

try getting your daughter a whole bunch of normal bras that fit i mean like literally looking at her chest and try on some that you think might work. also try getting some really cute ones like with polka dots or something to make her want to wear them instead of the push ups. then, tell her cousins that she doesnt like the push ups because there uncomfortable or something, so they can give them to charity or someone else.

Answer 11

I'm 12 and I wear a push up bra

Answer 12

well, if they're her size, i dont see whats wrong with that.

itd be gross if she didnt.

Answer 13

by her a frikken new one

sheesh

Answer 14

If she needs to wear a bra she needs to wear a bra.

Answer 15

If you don't think she should wear a push-up bra, get rid of it.  She is 11.

Answer 16

that's not ok at all!  I would never allow my daughter to wear one at that age!  That just seems to be calling those pedifile perverts out there to stare even more.  Protect your children the best u can, don't allow them to grow up too fast.

Answer 17

No it is not.  Just so you know it is cousins, not cuzins.  Anyways if you are not comfortable with it throw them out and get your daughter some age appropriate bras.  You are the parent, not your daughter and not her cousins.

Answer 18

Do you really have an 11 year old daughter? You type like an 11 year old. You can't spell and you sound like you're just bored.

Answer 19

You should ask your daughter, what she thinks about these bras from her cousins, if she wishes to wear them? or you go get her the bras that will make her pretty in her own right! I understand hand-me-downs, but that isn't always the best thing to do when it comes to personal things like the bras for your daughter< maybe she would feel better about herself if she had her own bras, and from what you say, she really DOES NOT NEED A PUSH UP BRA! Right? So, get her own and see if that makes it ok?

Answer 20

Tell her not wear push-up bras so she doesn't look like a s**t

Answer 21

I have a sneaky suspicion that you're the 11 year old wearing push up bras and are trying to figure out if you're dressing as S****y as you feel.  If you are, ask your mom to take you bra shopping.  

If you're the mom, take your daughter bra shopping and throw out the ones that aren't meant for children.  Remember that- your 11 year old, no matter what her b*****s may look like, is still a child.  She needs to wear appropriate clothing for her age.  I wouldn't want my 11 year old thonging it, so why would I want her pushing up her already large b*****s?  I want them secure and under a turtleneck if I can help it, lol.

Answer 22

11 is too young for push up bras. Your 11 year old doesn't need to wear her cousins' old bras.It's not at all sanitary to do. It's not good to give a teen,pre-teen,or an adult an old,already worn bra because chances are it's probably stretched out,stained, or falling apart. Push bras are for adults and teenagers.