Should my friend go out with this guy?

Question

She is only 18 years old and he is 28 years old.I She moved in with him after only dating for 2 months.He also cheated on his girlfriend at that time with her.But he said it wonted work out because that girl was married with a baby and one on the way...Her dad took a brand new car from her because her boyfriend was driving it.Which I don't blame them because he had his license taken revoked.He wont pay his child support And lost them.He has three kids he sees every other week end.My friend wont's to marry this guy.And have children from him someday.She had to have the lights turn on in her name the other day too because his dad moved out.And where his credit is so bad he couldn't.His x-wife must have had it bad then and now because she works all the time to pay for three kids...What can I do she don't see it coming. My friend is the only one working right now and paying bills.He wont work a job where you get a weekly check he will only work for cash because he said he owes 23,000 dollars back child support.He drinks and takes pills and partys alot.I even think he maybe dealing people are in and out of his house alot and dont stay long.What can I say or should I say something? What is she thinking?

Answer 1

You should say that you are concerned or at least show it because you know this guy isn't worth it. She probably was and still is out of her mind.

Answer 2

So many red flags are flying He does not work  (Translation he is spoiled and  lazy) Does not pay childs support for three kids Translation (He is irresponsible ) He cheated on his wife with her (Honey that is her future) Can not afford to turn the lights on in his name  ( Bad credit) (In reality these days with how the world is many people have this problem not due to there own fault )He drinks parties does drugs and might be dealing  drugs  If he gets busted for drugs she goes along with him  If she stays with him and marries him If he does not pay child support  she will have to pay Because she is the wife He in reality will be controlling  probably abusive and a money borrowing leech He will in reality cheat on her If he is out there  think of the STD s  he can bring home Seriously is this  someone you would take home to your mother Tell her get out of this relationship now  it may just save her life The Good Guys are out there ladies You just have to give  them a chance I was in a similiar situation in my twenties My  ex could not keep a job  never paid child support  for his other children 2 of them by two different women cheated  on me and I finally kicked him out  My son   was 3 weeks old  and  my  Daughter at the time 15 months  He never paid child suppport or was involved in  our childrens lifes I worked  and struggled to make ends meet  He meanwhile found a rich woman aand moved on I thought I could  fix him when I met him If I give him enough love and support he would change He did not