Should my girlfriend and I get another abortion?

Question

We've had about four so far and I was wondering if we should get another one. She's been getting pregnant since we've been together, so probably around when we were fifteen or so. Right now, she's a month along and I was wondering if we should get another abortion. How do you guys feel?

Also, three out of the four times, we've used a DIY method to abort the baby and so should we do the same for this baby? (If we do choose to abort it.)

Answer 1

I think first and foremost you should seek counseling.  

Seriously.. this is hard to believe!

I will pray for you!

Answer 2

No I wouldnt have another one its obviously meant for you and your girfriend to have a baby together. If you guys arent ready for a baby then dont have s*x or wear a condom...

Answer 3

NO!

You guys need to llearn some d**n responsibility if she keeps getting pregnant. For the love of god that is what condoms are for!!!!!

Four times thats crazy! You guys need to grow up I am not saying keep the baby but dont kill it because yall are to stupid to wrap it up!

Answer 4

PLEASE DON'T. You have no idea what this baby could become in life. It could do something amazing. And even if not, imagine it as if you're going out and murdering someone. You're murdering life inside of your girlfriend. I'm begging you, please don't. Sometimes it might seem like the easy way out, but please don't be fooled by that. Please do not kill this baby.

Answer 5

well the solution would be USE A CONDOM! or get her on birth control. apparently you two are NOT ready for a child if you have had 4 abortions.

god. are your two freaking mentally challenged! it cant even be healthy for her she may even not be able to have kids soon just because the simple fact that you dont no what the word responsibility means.

Answer 6

no grow up and me a man take responsibillity for your actions

Answer 7

you've had "about four" abortions. Your not even sure? I'd say somebody with your mental capacity should stay away from any activity that could maybe produce another human. having said that, don't you abort another baby. grow up

Answer 8

I'll Give My Opinion. Then ***** You Out.

My Opinion:

Abortion - I Hate It- Would Never Do It.

The Kid Deserves A Chance To Life.

You Brought It Into The World - Why Would You Take It Out-

I Think You Should Continue With The Pregnancy. If You Really Don't Want It - AT LEAST. . . Put Him/Her Up For Adoption.

If You Don't Want Kids, Use Protection.

Should You Get An Abortion?

- **** NO!

xD xD

I Hope You Decide To Keep It - Or At Least Let It Live, And Give It To Adoption.

Answer 9

you should keep the baby. by now it has finger nails and eyes and its a living human being like me and you. I think you should consider keeping the baby. and next time you have s*x use a condom ok so this doesn't happen again ok

Answer 10

you know what happens when you have unprotected s*x.  so why keep doing it.  people like you are sick !!!!

Answer 11

OMG!  I hope you aren't serious!  What incredibly stupid people you must be.  This answer will probably be deleted be cause I said that, but what are you thinking??? What happened to condoms, or the pill!   If you are so foolishly continung to have unprotected s*x and you do not want any children, then I suggest you both go and get yourselves surgically sterilized.  You are being so irresponsible with the health of the woman, because repeated abortions can cause her some long term health problems.

For me, this is a moral issue.  I am one of the many who do not believe in abortion, rather I believe that if you have an unwanted baby, then there are many, many people who are trying to have a baby and are not able to conceive and adoption is their alternative.  What about that???  Why not think about adoption??

Answer 12

If u must. better than having a baby i always say

Answer 13

geez instead of killing them all stop having s*x. By the way I don't think having so many abortions is good for her??

Answer 14

DUDE WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU!!!!! Its your and your girlfriends responsibility to make sure this doesn't happen DO NOT HAVE AN ABORTION and whats with the we've had about 4 so far thats just sick bringing new life into the world is an opurtunity that ur just throwing away like a piece of trash its called common sense get some would you before you go around killing more babies and don't you dare get an abortoin cuz incase u haven't gotten the message what u have been doing is inhumane and sick!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... and try a condom or birthcontrol its not that hard but i guess a murderer couldn't be expecten to understand that....

Answer 15

again abortions are not a birth control!!!!!!!!! buy some dam condoms and put her on the dam shot,its not hard!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 16

when you guys really do try to have a baby of your own your wife isn't gonna be able to cause of all does abortions! one abortion is okay but come on 4 datz jus ridiculous

Answer 17

I'm thinking abstinence for the two of you from now on - or birth control methods such as the pill, etc.  Abortion is murdering an innocent life, and not a birth control method.  You should both be ashamed.  Give this kid a fighting chance and give it up for adoption.

Answer 18

Not on your life!! These children did not ask to be concieved. You're taking the cowards way out. Abortion is not birth control. It is a last resort when there are no other options and trust me there are other options. What you are asking to do is low and selfish on your part. I hope you come to a decision that is not as crazy as this.

Answer 19

do what you feel is best. no one can make you do what ever you dont want

Answer 20

Just stop having s*x if you're going to keep aborting babies. . . Or use better methods of protection.

Answer 21

If your to stupid to use protection then either of you don't need to be having s*x. Give the child a chance to live and just give it up for adoption.There's people out there that can't have kids that would love to adopt a baby.

Answer 22

Well, of course, people always have very strong feelings about abortion.  I want to clarify that the baby doesn't have fingernails or any of that action yet either.  The other respondent was GROSSLY misinformed (and likely very religious).  See any doctor and they will tell you that the embryo is only a little sack with a little substance to it at 4 weeks.  You and your girlfriend need to make your own decision.  It's about CHOICE!  And it's yours - including the method to use should you CHOOSE to have the procedure.  And, actually abortion IS a form of birth control - IT CONTROLS BIRTH.  It isn't contraceptive, that's true.  And I'm sure you and your beloved will endeavor to religiously employ some form of contraception from now on???  Whatever you're using (if anything) isn't working.

Answer 23

Abortion is not birth control, or did you not get that memo? You need to take responsibility for your actions, either that or stop having s*x!

Answer 24

You're disgusting.  Abortion is not birth control.  You are killing YOUR CHILDREN.

You need to get your balls cut off and she needs to get her tubes tied.

Selfish, disgusting, horrible people.