My sister just found her son that she gave up 16 years ago on myspace. She figured it out by his first name and last state of residence (and age of course), and his picture on the page. I just looked at his page, which hasn't been updated in a year, and it listed her under the people he would like to meet one day. He's 16 and the adoption was closed. Should she contact him? Should she try to contact his parents first?
I know from experience that 16 year old boys can be very confused and unstable, so I think she may be better off waiting until he's 18. Then again, I was very excited by the news and would love to meet him. I know she wants to contact him and meet him immediately. But she is cautious and respectful at the same time. Thanks.
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