Should she stop talking to her daughters father alot or am i overreacting?Wat should i do?

Question

Basically to make the story short..im with a girl who has a baby,so yes she talks to the baby daddy..and i dont mind its just i dont feel comfortable with him hiting her up all the time just to talk..i mean they are not together for a reason right?Him calling to ask about his duaghtor is alright with me..but then he calls sometimes and shes giving him advance on random stuff..or asking her opinion on things..idk I just dont like it..just feels funny..In my opinion i feel that she should not be doing that out of respect for me..cause i would do the same if i was in her shoes..and also she tells me she cant stop talking to him or stop being his friend cause of the baby....WAT SHOULD I DO?AM I OVERREACTING?SHOULD I LEAVE HER??HONEST ANSWERS PLEASE..i just dont like to feel uncomfortable in a relationship

Answer 1

when some ppl have kids and split up they feel obligated to be there for each other to keep things civil

dont worry about it, be honest and ask her if she may have some feelings for him or if she just cares about him enough to help him out with things cuz you feel alittle hurt  

Answer 2

You are going to have to deal with it.   As long as the father is in the kids life that is how it will be.  That is what comes with dating someone with children.

Answer 3

He's her kids FATHER.. what do you expect?

I don't think it would be fair for you to expect her to stop being friends with him as them staying friends is in the best interests of her daughter.. I think you just need to trust her.

Answer 4

Sorry to say this but your being very self centered . This is an awesome thing that the father is having a part in the childs life you need to be supportive and understanding because you want this child to have a father . If shes coming home every night to you then your over reacting but if she is crossing some boundaries like seeing him too much without the child then you have to have a talk . Chances are hopefully shes a smart woman and will leave the past behind for a man that really likes her ,,you !! But if there is a chance that they get together you need to back off and let them figure it out for the child .

Honestly tho you probably have nothing to worry about its hard to feel out of the circle especially since they have a lot of history together like a child but make her feel special and loved and remind this a woman why she is with you !!

Best of luck buddy !

Izzie

Answer 5

you could be overreacting. i think that if anything was going on, she'd try to keep it a secret from you so i don't think there is. and as for the reason they're not together, maybe they were just interested in being friends or he is g*y