Should this be a problem for a girlfriend?

Question

everytime i break up with a girl, i usually end up being good friends with them. there have only been a few i don't continue to hang out with over the years. my new girlfriend doesn't think that is good and that i should ditch all my friends, just because they are girls. i don't really see these ex girlfriends much, but i would like to see them occasionally. is this bad?

Answer 1

Nope, and your new girlfriend should be secure enough with your relationship and should trust you. If there isn't any trust, there isn't a relationship. And controlling, bossy broads aren't the best girlfriend material. You should never choose friends over a girlfriend, relationships come and go.

Answer 2

I don't think that it's bad. IF your new girlfriend feels uncomfortable about it perhaps you should suggest letting her come along with you when you meet up with your friends. That way you can all become friends. It shows that you've got nothing to hide.

I hope that you realize that not all people are mature and able to continue being friends once they've been intimate.

You have a choice. Respect your current GF's feelings, and includeed her with your friendships. Or move on to someone who doesn't mind your relationships with your past ex's.  

Answer 3

NOT A BIG DEALS, YOU ARE FINE.