Should this bother me....??

Question

Me and my boyfriend started at a new school together and know almost no one. A lot of girls like my boyfriend.

I know i should be complimented but i cant help but feel worried that he'll like one of them back.

We've been together for 18 months and i DO trust him but i don't trust the girls. they're all prettier then me and i have low self esteem so that DOESN'T help...

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I talked to my boyfriend and he says i have nothing to worry about but i cant help but let it bother me!!

Any advice on how to feel better??

Answer 1

From a guy's perspective?

I'd say, if you do your best to show him how you feel--often--he'll see how lucky he is. He's not going to leave someone he really clicks with for somebody he doesn't know.

Also, if the girls in the new school aren't crazy, then getting to know them better isn't a bad thing. If they know how you guys are, they'll be careful not to break it up. That is if they're not crazy. And if they are crazy, show him even more affection. But don't fight with 'em, 'cause they'll want revenge.

Answer 2

Start developing a life that doesn't involve him, get involved in sports or another activity that you enjoy.  It will get you out and meeting people in your new school, and it will give you something interesting to talk with him about, he will enjoy hearing about all of the things that you are doing and it will keep your relationship new and fresh and give you confidence to boot.

Answer 3

ya that would bother me too but not if i had been with the guy for 18 months he loves he wouldn't stay with you for 18 months if he didn't you and you really should trust him

good luck

Answer 4

If you really did trust him, there would be no problem.

So unless you think they are going to hit him over the head, tie him up and abuse him, or slip something into his drink, you've got nothing to worry about.

If you are still worried, then you don't trust him. Quicker you accept that, the quicker you'll figure out your problem.

Answer 5

i seriously doubt they are ALL prettier than you. you're just freaked out a little. it totally cool to be nervous when your in a new place and your being protective of your boy which is ok too. don't worry if he says not to

Answer 6

I know what you mean girl. It's hard not to be jealous when you've got all kinds of pretty girls going for your guy. But just think, it would be easy for him to dump you if he wanted. But he hasn't. So obviously he doesn't care about any of those girls. Otherwise he'd be with one of them and not with you. Don't let it come between you guys.

Obviously he loves you. Plus, I'm sure he's been approached by plenty of pretty girls in the 18 months you've been together, yet he never dumped you for one of them now did he.

Answer 7

that would drive me crazy!!! yea it should bother u