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Should we break up or wait it out?

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I've been dating one of my guy friends since Monday, and a lot of times, I feel indifferent about the relationship. It seems like we're still just good friends. I think that's because we live in different towns now that I'm in college.

Though we kiss (and we made out a few times last summer), something seems to be missing.

Should I break up with him or wait it out and see how it goes?

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Honey if youre not sure, then certainly somethings missing. Just be friends, and move on. You dont have to second-doubt yourself if youre not sure at all.
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I'd wait it out.

I did the same thing with my guyfriend who I went out with and it felt like we were still friends so I broke up with him but now I really miss him and I want to go back out with him but I have a boyfriend now.

So just wait it out and I'm sure you wont regret it.

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wait a little bit and see how works out! id give it about 3 or 4 more get together sessions and then go from there! good luck!
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I would say you better talk among yourselves and then land up to some decision because it's a personal experience that in relations the best solutions come only through discussions..

but, if you can't talk with the guy, and totally want to listen what people here have to say for you.... then by reading whatever u told... i can say one thing that you can still give in some time... see for another 2-3 weeks and then might be think of a break up...

all the best :)
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why hold onto something that isnt right? if you wait it out.. your keeping him from meeting someone he may have better chances with and your keeping yourself from meeting someone new..

it doesnt make any sense to wait it out.. your already friends.. stay friends.. maybe later down the road something will click and it may work out for you that time but if its not working out now and your having a long distance relationship then it makes no sense to stay with it... tellhim you want to stay friends.. or see other people?

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