Should we divorce over w.o.w?? or am i being too harsh??

Question

well..for the past year my husband has been addicted to w.o.w. we have two kids together(our son is two and our daughter is one) and he doesn't spend anytime with us. when he gets home from work he jumps on right away and plays until 1am. we argue everyday about this. he has promised to hang out with me and our two kids one hour a day and well..it only worked for two days. when its dinner time he eats at his desk (while playing w.o.w) and sometimes sits with us for only 5 minutes..when we argue he sits there and says well i hung out with you didn't i?? I am sick and tired of this..i do ALL the chores at home..if i run to the store i have to take both kids with me so he doesn't get bothered and when i leave one kid with him he doesn't watch them( i caught our 1 yr old daughter playing with her own p**p because he was too busy "raiding" to change her diaper..oh..and our s*x life hass really suffered too..it's always a quikie now and then back to w.o.w..or not even i'm at my wits end..i have been seriously thinking of leaving him..am I too harsh??

Answer 1

its a adiction, it cant get btter unless he wants to change, leave if you choose, or council if he will go, but please dont envolve the kids.

Answer 2

Leaving is one answer.  It sounds like you hubby has got an addition problem, or at least obsessive compulsive problems.  You may want to urge him to see a counselor.  The bad part if it is, if he does not see it as a problem, then he has little hope.  You moving out may make him realize that there really is an issue.

Good Luck

Answer 3

Get a copy of it for yourself, level up a character while he is at work.  Once you hit the top level, wait for him to go into pvp and then kick his butt so bad that he's too embarassed to ever play again.

Answer 4

"Ask Amy" in the newspaper just recently ran a question about a man whose wife (with kids) plays w.o.w. ALL day long into the wee hours or the morning. Apparently there are gamers anonymous groups, which are ironically online. It just needs to be treated as an addiction, because that's exactly what it is. I suggest couples therapy, and if he won't go, go yourself so your counselor can help you through this. If nothing else works, I think it's time to go. Game over.

Answer 5

no your not too harsh, your husband sounds like d**k

but when my parents split it wasnt so much that they were apart but that we never see my dad anymore

so if you do divorce make sure your kids dont suffer as well.

good luck!

Answer 6

take a small vacation to a place that doesn't have internet or where you're too busy for it. If he still acts the same way without it, I'd leave. That is not what an ideal marriage is and if he can't see that then tough luck for him. Be careful though, once you mention divorce you have to mean it...he'll come at you like a bullet saying he'll change, but you saw his change already...it lasted 2 days. It'll always be like that, start off good then go back. Stick to your words, your kids are too young to understand what's going on, if you divorce now they'll grow up knowing it's almost normal. Be sure to talk to them about it everyday though, so that way they can become accustomed to it. Good luck with your decisions!

Answer 7

well, i am a harsh woman, it is either my way or a hard way. so here what i would do - i would take smth heavy and break the computer. as simple as that. then i would cry and tell him one more time i see him on the computer - we re through. and then if he bought another computer and started playing again i would kick him out of the house - he is useless anyway, and if u kick him out u will get child support money and will be able to find someone normal. cos he is not normal. really. good luck to u lady, u re gonna have hard time for a while and it is in your power either to have hard time for a while or forever

Answer 8

Get out of there and WOW with you.