Should we help with someone's immaturity or do they have to learn it on their own ?

Question

I have known that the best way we learn lessons in life are through bad experiences, I know of someone very close to me who is behaving very immature so must I take ownership for their immaturity - since the person is my wife - or should I leave to her life to teach her good lessons

Answer 1

A lot of stuff we do have to learn on our own, but there's also others can make easier for us by warning against situations we know don't usually turn out well.  I've been saved from making some horrible decisions by asking my parents or a very trusted friend what their opinions on my actions are.  Older people really do have a lot of wisdom and it's incredible how much you can learn when you tap into their minds for a while.

Answer 2

Life will do her justice better than you could ever imagine. She won't really listen to you even though you're her husband. She's going to have to learn the hard way.