From what some people tell us, it seems we have three strikes against us. We are in our forties, we both have advanced degree professional careers, and we already have kids.
We want to adopt again because we love kids. We are financially secure. We have an approved homestudy and have hired an adoption attorney. Still we can't find a birthmother. The only bites we seem to get are from really strange people (a guy that told us he was pregnant with biracial twins and a woman who said she was carrying the anti-Christ-interesting, but no thanks!) or Camaroon scams. Also, our state prohibits the use of facilitators. We are open to a boy or a girl. We have a 3-year old biracial daughter. Should we just give up?
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