Should we say no to his rsvp??

Question

ok my partners uncle has nearly caused our break up a year ago with tax return problems. he has stuffed us around finacially and its been 1 yr and we are still trying to sort it all out. He was invited to our wedding but i dont want him there either does my partner, but its his dad brother and his dad isnt going to be happy or understand how hard its been, here is the story

ok my partner has been un able to lodge his 2006-2007 tax return due to his old boss/uncle refusing to give a group certificate, now its 2008 and its still not sorted and i want to lodge this years so i can get my family tax benifit payment.

Answer 1

wwoooww! wat a hole he got you in.if you really resent him for it and dont want him there, then its your wedding and you can choose who you want and dont want..but also remember, he is family and is going to know about the wedding..

Answer 2

Maybe he'll release the paperwork as a wedding gift...

Answer 3

Let him go but just say hi and move on, its not worth gettting his father upset over it  

Answer 4

I don't think you should. Your wedding is really just one day and you'll only bump into him for maybe a few seconds at the reception and ceremony.

If you don't let him come,then you're going to look bad for the entire time that you're married to your husband.Some families don't forget and may even hold a grudge.

Answer 5

Interesting. I would flat out say don't come.  But then again, I really don't care what people think of me.  If you don't want him there then don't have him there.  So some of the people in his family want to hold a grudge. Let them. if you two are together and happy that is all that matters.

Hope this gets all sorted out for ya.  

Answer 6

Sorry but you cant do that, if you didnt want him there then you should just not have invited him, you cant just uninvite someone...

Just cause hes there doesnt particularly mean you have to speak to him..

Answer 7

I understand your frustration but you invited the man to the wedding - knowing the history there.  To me that would be beyond insulting to be invited then have it revoked.

I know it's hard but try to separate the two events and try to enjoy the day even with him there.

I don't know what a group certificate is, but can you get help creating a duplicate through your tax agency?  Here in the US if the employer provided information they can help recreate the "W2" - otherwise we can do an estimated tax document.