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My husband and I have been married for over 3 years. We have 2 children under the age of 5. We've not had s*x in 5 months because I am just not attracted to him. We are going to counseling and he has been trying, I just don't think I want to try anymore. I will always love him but we have just been co-parenting and co-existing for many months now. We don't ague. We were told to go on dates but there is this uncomfortable silence. I am just wondering if we are better as friends. I would hate to split up my family but I don't love him like he deserves to be. 6 months ago he went through rehab for painkillers and it was really hard for both of us. Some things I found out just made me think differently of him. I feel like a horrible person because I don't want to save our marriage and he says that he does. He has told me before that he didn't care if he was miserable with me but as long as he could be with the kids he didn't care.I am very confused and scared. I know that if we separate he would have to find a cheap apartment and we would both struggle financially. I would never keep the kids from him and worked out a 60/40 calender for custody.
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