Should we stay friends?

Question

there was this boy i liked at school and he like me too he used to text me all the time saying he loved me and stuff but then, he has s*x with my friend. i was really upset about it but after a while i started to feel better and i started to like someone else i really trusted this new guy cos he was like one of my best friends. i told him everything n he started texting me saying he loved me aswell but then i found out that he had s*x with one of my friends aswell, he has been telling me he loved me the whole time n i really believed him i just cant believe 2 boys would do this to me, im more upset about the 2nd one cos i put all my trust into that boy n he knew what i went through with the first guy. i really want to still be friends with him but i just dont know if i can forgive him. what should i do?

Answer 1

Guys will be guys, you just have to find the right ones and they weren't it. You can still be friends, but you have to realize that they aren't trustworthy at all. If those are the type of people you want to be friends with than so be it. Also, why would your friends have s*x with those boys when they knew you liked them? Make me question them too...

Answer 2

you wish. but never. we cannot stay friends, there are no "friends" here, it was always only one "friend" here.

Answer 3

I don't want to sound mean but, u shouldn't be so easy!!! toughen up and don't let any boy (friend or not) tell them they love u cos their just messin u about. Good luck  

Answer 4

one thing: trust is very important in any relationships.

Answer 5

Listen if your in high school don't take any relationship seriously ---- Wait till you get out of high school --  because there still in there teen , there mind is not mature enough --

Answer 6

well, i would NEVER put all my trust in a boy unless i am married to him bc i kno that guys mess up - as does every one else. so y not put ur trust in someone who is perfect? the Lord Jesus Christ who made u and cares for u, .....

in ur situation, i would definetly try to avoid getting caught up in all the drama ur 2 guy friends r in. and if they tell u that they love u over a TEXT, i wouldnt believe them. they hav to tell it to u in person and u can c it in their eyes if they rele mean it. trust me, ive been in a situation where some1 tld me they loved me but eventually, they just zoomed out of my life so obviously, they didnt love me.

i hope this answers ur question! good luck!

Answer 7

your town sounds way messed up, if you are only 15 going 21 you should consider focusing your energy on things that are more worthwhile than men---i mean you have experienced the worst and you still put yourself out there like meat open for vultures to feast on, take a break from the dating scene and just really focus on improving thyself, you need to recharge those batteries or you would be in danger of being a pessimist all your life.

Answer 8

If a guy has s*x with a girl it does not mean love. It means lust. A guy can have s*x with a Hot, unintelligent, mean, heartless woman. He might only do it once but he would do it. Love is an action not a feeling. Two men standing beside you as a train comes bearing down at you. One feels strongly for you, the other has no feelings but is an honorable man. Mr. feelings man feels sorry for you but doesn't want to get killed himself. So he is going to let the train hit you. It will hurt him emotionally because he "feels" love for you. Mr. Honorable jumps in the way of the train pushing you out of the way and being struck and killed in the process. Who "loved" you more?  

Answer 9

LOOK YOU R YOUNG N YOU WILLLEARN FROM ALL YOUR EXPERIENCES,,AND YOU WILL GET WISER ABOUT GUYS,AT THIS AGE IF A GIRL PUTS OUT AS IN s*x,THEY WANT HER, N SHE IS NOT RESPECTED AT ALL!!...U HANG IN THERE N  I WOULD FOR GIVE HIM BUT ONLY B FRIENDS  N STOP TELLING ANYONE YOUR SECRETS IN LIFE GET YOU  A DIARY N PUT THEM IN THERE N WHEN YOU DO MEET THE GUY U REALLY LOVE ,THEN U CAN READ HIM ALL YOUR WISHES N DREAMS,,PEACE