Should we stay or should we go?

Question

I am from California living in England with my husband. I've only been here for a year and I'm incredibly home sick. I miss California. I miss my Family and friends. My husband and I are planning on starting a family and he has said we can move to California as he knows how important my family is to me an our future family (he's not as close with his family). The problem is, we have a nice place we are renting, we both work for the same job which is really close to home. If we move to California we would stay with my parents till we found work, and a place to live. But we would be having to get out of our lease early here. We also couldn't buy furniture, as what's the point? I told him I would like to see what happens if I stay and if I can do it. But he wants to be somewhere that we can settle down and feels it's hard to do with the idea of leaving.. I just don't know what to do. Should we stay? Or should we go?

Answer 1

I agree that you should move back to California.  Can you wait awhile though until your lease is up?  Can you save a little money first before you move so you will have something to live on?  You can always start searching for jobs now on the internet, or just send your resume to some companies.  Get an early start on it and maybe you won't have to live with your parents for so long.

Answer 2

You should move to California where you know you will be happy and you can finally put down roots and start a family.