Should we stay together or not? please help ?

Question

Ive been with my boyfriend for almost a year now, im 16. I can quite honestly say that hes the loveliest lad i have ever met. Hes always nice to me, understanding, funny, loving and has never upset me, not once. We havent had a single argument even though at times ive been quite out of order. But somehow with me something just doesnt feel right. I definately like him and yeh i fink i love him. But i dont know if hes the 'one' if you get me. I dont know why i feel like this because I seriously dont think i'll ever find a boy as nice as him ever. but i just dont feel much of a spark. I think maybe this is because hes my first serious bf and maybe im not ready to stay with one lad for so long yet. But splitting up with him would just be cruel as i have no reason really because he truly is lovely. What do you think i should do? Stay with him or split up?? please help me x

Answer 1

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Answer 2

Ok now i have been with the some boy for 10 years and trust me i hv tried to leave him and i have no reason to leave him but trust me you need to see other pple you are still young and unlike me i have just come to understand that i have love so much i feel pitty and its the worst reason to be with someone.And if you have yr eye on someone else go for it  

Answer 3

Who says you have to make a decision yet?

Let things take their course.    

Do not rush into anything. You have all the time in the world.

Answer 4

Why ask if you should stay with him after you tell us all the reasons you don't want to be with him?

Stop being selfish and stupid and be honest with him let the guy go he deserves better.

Answer 5

marry him.  it is the best you can do

Answer 6

But splitting up with him would just be cruel

Staying with him is more cruel, have an honest chat with him.

Answer 7

you are just too young, you need to freshen up your relationship, there is some lack of emotions in there...that  is because of your age. I think you should talk to him and do different things together...I would recommend you to give yourselves some time off, just to treasure more what you have. Since you don't seem to see it cause he just won't give you no space...that's the problem with you.

Answer 8

My honest opinion is if you really care and appriciate him then you will let him go and you will be honest with him. Our thoughts always come out in the physical. Your overwhelming thought is too explore, which means depending on how you are wired you will either a) cheat, b) make up some excuse to break up or c) tell him the hard truth and hope that he is mature enough right now to be your friend.

he may not like it or even understand it right now. But as he grows and deals with other girls, he will come to value what you did and how you did it, just like you value him.  

Answer 9

Don't start thinking about the 'one' your only 16 years old. have fun for now. If you really like him then stay with him. And if you just don't like him anymore then break up with him. If hes as nice as you say he is h**l understand just be honest with him.