Should you mind your own business? What would you do?

Question

What if you catch your friend's or relative's spouse or bf/gf cheating would you mind your business? I notice people say you should but I dont think that is right. If some one stole your car and everyone say it you would want someone to tell. But when it comes to infidelity people turn the other cheek. Why is that?

10 points for best logical answer

Answer 1

I would have to say something, I wouldn't be able to keep it from them.

Answer 2

20 years ago, I witnessed my friend's wife cheating on my friend. In good conscience, I couldn't keep it a secret. So I told him. And he didn't talk to me for ten years. It's the classic "shoot the  messenger" story. BUT, they ended up divorcing, he found a wonderful woman a few years later, they're still married to this day, and he and I are friends again. So YES, I say tell, but be prepared for your friend to hate you for it. But ask yourself, if it were the other way around, wouldn't you be kind of ticked off at your friends if they knew your S.O. was cheating on you and NONE of them told you?  

Answer 3

People are hypocrite's.

Most people won't listen to advice from there loved ones, but they will listen from strangers.

Messed UP.

If I caught my friends g/f cheating , I would make that g/f know that I know.  I would probably go up and say , HEY, where is your bf? who is this? Then I would say, never mind,. I'll call him. (snap a photo ) and make the call.

People say turn the cheek because those are the losers who won't follow society's norm's. And they want to just accept everything so, that others will be accepting of their deceitfully actions.

Answer 4

I try to stay away from drama like that.  If it is a true friend of mine or a relative I think I would say something to the person doing the cheating first to make sure they know I know so they will have the opportunity to confess to their spouse...that's just me

Answer 5

My dad once told me "Don't believe anything you hear, and only believe half of what you see." Are you sure you saw anything? What if you are wrong? I'd mind my own business. If there is cheating going on, the one being cheated on will figure it out eventually.  

Answer 6

if that's happen to me that i saw my friend bf cheating...

i will not tell her... i will just give her advice that have more times to your bf   & be \ware of what he do when he's not around...

i'll just give her a hint..

i don't want to be the reason of their break up/world war...!!! but i will make sure if thing go worst i'll be at her side..

Answer 7

the difference is when it comes to relationships there is always more about it then you know.  if your car is stolen its pretty cut and dry what happen.  But when there are infidelity there are other issues and other circumstances that you don't know anything about.  So I say yes mind your own business unless there is the unusual situation that you might know but that is not to common believe me you very seldom knows what goes on behind close doors.

Answer 8

If it was my best friend then I would tell her right away, and she said that she would do the same for me.