Should your spouse or s/o have your ATM passcode?

Question

What about your email passwords too?

Answer 1

A spouse of course anyone else No. If there is nothing to hide there shouldn't be a problem. Any passwords or pins should be given to spouse.  

Answer 2

If you have nothing to hide then whats the problem with your spouse knowing these things?

Answer 3

Spouse maybe, s/o no.  email maybe

Answer 4

spouse should also have an atm card, cause the account should b joint..

password to email...thats each couples choice..my boyfriend doesnt have mine and i dont have his..we trust each other therefore dont feel the need to have them..

Answer 5

being married we only have one bank account so ATM yes. We dont have each others e-mail passwords though. If he didnt trust me I would give it to him although he probably wouldnt like some things I say to my friends(females, I rarely talk to males aside from one mutual friend I knew before I met him but turned out they were best friends, and thats only on occasion) because I may be upset at him at the moment or whatnot and am venting. Now him on the other hand I dont think he would willingly just give me his password.  

Answer 6

I give my husband all my passwords. Why not?  He doesn't snoop around that I know of.  If he did it would be fine too, we don't hide anything from each other.

Answer 7

I don't see why not unless you have something to hide. We share a bank account, but it would not bother me other wise.  

Answer 8

I have everything :P,, email passwords to myspace passwords to atm cards and passwords... we hide nothing from eachother

Answer 9

My husband has mine. I don't have anything to hide.  

Answer 10

Absoulutely Not.....never mix money and relationships..  E-Mail aboulutely not, love cannot exist without trust so if they don't trust you well you need to look for someone who does..

Answer 11

My husband has my atm passcodes, but not my email, only because he does not use the computer and doesnt want to.  He trusts me and I trust him.  If we didn't, what would have been the point in getting married?

Answer 12

well since the ATM card is to a joint account, YES, he has the code and he has his own card.   As for email passcodes, he knows one or two of them, I don't know any of his and I don't really care.  We trust one another.

Answer 13

I don't really care about my husband's email - I do know his ATM number and he knows mine (ours are each others birthdays backward plus one more number).

My husband's email would be very boring to me - all work stuff.  

Answer 14

Mine knows all of mine. I have nothing to hide. Plus we share a checking account. He's never asked to read my emails but if he feels the need to he's certainly welcome.  

Answer 15

I don't see nothing wrong with it.  Never had a problem so far.  We have each other's passwords and pin numbers to pretty much everything.  If I didn't trust him or had an ounce of doubt, he would never have had it in the first place.

Answer 16

S/O - nope.  If there's not a commitment there's no need for sharing that kind of information... it can lead to serious trouble in a break up.  

Spouse - ATM passcode - if the couple has separate accounts I suppose it would matter why the accounts were separate.

Email passwords - touchy.  I don't know.   Not sharing them seems to imply there's something to hide but really some emails between friends should remain just that.  (Particularly ones where there's venting about spouses.  =P )

Really I think it's up to the couple to come to an agreement between the two of them about what's best for them.  If one spouse is suspicious about the other's fidelity and thinks they can bust them through email they're probably wrong.. most cheaters are pretty good about covering their electronic tracks.

Answer 17

unless you have your bank account with them no....

the people you trust the most could be the ones who F*** you over sometimes...as for e-mail that's different.

Answer 18

Yes. Why not? If you died wouldn't you want your spouse to have access to your information? I have nothing to hide.  

Answer 19

Not a significant other but my husband does because we only have one joint account anyway so it does not really matter.  He has access to it no matter whose care he uses.  As for the email, our computer opens to it automatically and does not need a password.  I have nothing to hide.