Shouldnt guys have the option of having a child like a woman does?

Question

If a guys wears a condom...and ask the girl if she is on birth control and she says yes but lies or it just didn't work and he tells her he dont want kids or a relationship with her and he tells her he just want to have a good time for one night...why should he be responsible for a child if she decides to keep it. Shouldn't she be the sole provider?

Answer 1

Well he's got the option of not boinking her.

Or masturbation.

Answer 2

No. Biology prevents that. The only option is abstinence. It's a risk.  

Answer 3

If she lied about being on birth control, then she trapped him!

But, when a child is brought into the world, i believe that the father must have some sort of paternal thing going on.

In terms of full responsibility though, the mother is the most, considering she lied, she should be willing to take on full responsibility!

Answer 4

No. He made that choice when he decided to have s*x with her. You are only ready to have s*x if you are ready to deal with the consequences. Period.