Showing Off a Dirty Home....................?

Question

My bf has brought me to his mother's house (he doesn't live there as he has an apt. of his own) and showed me around the house how dirty it is and how unkempt the bathrooms are.

This is when she's out working as she has 2 jobs.

Why would he show me how dirty his mother's home is bathroom even-- if he doesn't live there. Should I even be there when the mother isn't home as it's not his place??? What do you think? Is something wrong with him or what?

I'd be upset if someone came in my home and it was a mess, if I wasn't there.........

Answer 1

maybe he just doesnt realize how messy it is...is his place messy?

Answer 2

I think your b/f is a major loser and I would dump him. If he was any kind of real son he would clean up the house for his mother even if he doesn't live there anymore. Especially since she is working two jobs. I bet she had to work two jobs to support that little dirtbag. If he is like this to his mother what do you think he will end up treating you like? If he wants to take you there again tell him you are not interested. there is no reason for you to be in another woman's home just so her son can act like an jerk in front of you.

Answer 3

most men dont see a home as dirty as most women would.

chalk it up to the women are from mars and men are from venus thing.

Answer 4

In my opinion, this was a very disrespectful thing to do, especially since he isn't living there. What was the purpose of showing you this? Was he warning you that he expects you not to keep house like this should you two marry? Whatever his motivation, it doesn't sound good. A man who treats his mother so disrespectfully will treat his wife/girlfriend worse. It's an old saying that if you want to know how a man will treat you when you're married, look at how he treats his mother. There are exceptions, I'm sure, but for the most part I have found this to be true.

Good luck!