Shud I stay or move out ?

Question

Guys tell me what to do. My land lord is not allowing my bf to come home. He put down a rule that he shud come to visit me only in the day time that too just for half an hour. And no guys are allowed. I told him the day i moved that only my bf wud come and no other guy. Now he is creating a problem. Y day he made a huge scene by not allowing him inside and locked the gate ! My bf works till 9 or 10 in the night. So he comes directly to visit me. I just moved into this house and my mom came all the way from another state to help me move in. I cannot even change the owners mind. He is pretty strict about it. And 2ndly my mom wants me to stay there ! Really in a dilemna !

Answer 1

tell him if my bf wants to stay over he will end of case. i do think you should move out

Answer 2

move on dear..

Answer 3

Move, thats sum shiet your lan lord telling you that your own man can't come home.

I'd be like wtf? I'm payin you to live here and you say my man cant come home

Answer 4

unless you have some bizarre lease agreement, a landlord cannot dictate who comes to visit you or when they come visit.  I think you need a lawyer.  

Answer 5

stay

Answer 6

I THINK YOU SHOULD TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE,,,MOM IS LIVING HERS N THIS ONE IS YOURS,,YOUR NOT HAPPY THERE,,,U GET URE BF TO HELP U MOVE,,,THE LANDLORD SOUNDS LIKE A PERVE,,,N UNTIL U MOVE I WOUL PUT SOMETHING UP AGAINST YOUR DOOR SO HE CANT COME IN,,,CAUSE U NO HE HAS A KEY....GOOD LUCK,,,,PEACE

Answer 7

better to meet ur bf infront of gate..

Answer 8

try to tell your mom how stuck you are  

Answer 9

where i live the landlords can niot say who comes to stay and who dont.uk.it ok for the landlord to say he dont want pets in the hse but people???its like u living wid ya father and not a landlord.is he for real wid his resritictions.needs to check himself flipping weirdo.if u r living in theuk then this is against the law and u can go and see a solicitor regarding this matter.u r caught up in this mess and he aint gona cahnge is he babe,wat a piece of **** he is.cant u get anythibng on him so he baks off.i fight fire wid fire wen i can.good luck to u cus u gona need it wid this landlord.pinksssssssssss

Answer 10

if u r under a proper lease then that is illgal you are payin 2 live there wat u do is ur business

Answer 11

Are you from India. Sorry any landlord not taking any this kind of risk at their home, nobody know even you don't know what is the intention in anybody's mind and what going after you invite any boy or your boyfriend to your room but this is responsibility of the landlord that he should know who is coming at his house. Today time is not good many bad things are going on esp. with girls and women. Your mother is also caring you but you can't understand because at your kind of people always think that they are always right.

Answer 12

First tell your mom about everything and try to bring her on your side n then tell your landlord that whatever you do is your personal life and he has no right to interfere.tell him u r not going to pay any bills/rent.

Answer 13

but... u have to think about the bills... like the electricity, the water etc....

but is ur choice... trust me,,, it's gonna be hard

Answer 14

ok thats kinda weird he cannot legally do that..and secondly sounds like some perv **** to me.  i say move out and talk to your mom..or maybe get help from your boyfriend. i mean you pay to live there and i've never heard of anything saying someone was not allowed there just because...........get the h**l outta there girl!!