Shud i find my dad after 2 years of not hearing from him?

Question

my dad left us 2 years ago and hasnt been in touch. he wasnt the best dad and i hate him for leaving. it was my mums fault for having an affair and since then she has been an awful mum. i feel for my dad but he shudnt of left me becos of wot my mum did. i miss him so much cos he wil always b my dad but is wot he did unforgivable? he mite push me away if i found him. please help!

Answer 1

What Your Mum Did Was Wrong So I Understand Why He Left Your Mum But You Didn't Do Anything Wrong And Shouldn't Have Let His Pain Affect You So I Say Forget About Him If He Wanted You He Would Have Seen You A Long Time Ago You Are Most Defiantly Better Off Without Him X

Hope This Helps X

Answer 2

i think you shouldnt punish your dad,probably these 2 years were the worst of all his life

he didnt mean to punish you maybe he just wanted to knw if your mom would go after him or no,maybe he wanted you to go for him to see why he left

forgive him because there is nothing which is called unforgivable mistake

because even god forgives us our wrongs! how couldn we forgive the people that we love!

love him and forgive him,be sure that he needs you as much as you need him

you can only have one dady once in the life..

show him how much you love him and how much you miss him bec someday you would regret that you didn't trust me!

hope that helped you!

if you need anything just add me as a friend and i'd send you my email!

it was only 2 years,bettter than being away from him all ur life

LOVE&FORGIVE!

u'll feel better!

Tc

Answer 3

You'll be wishing your whole life that you found him.  You have alot of unanswered questions that need to be answered so yes, find him and see if he's open for a relationship.  

Answer 4

Absolutely YES.

You never know what day is your last day on this earth, it could be today even.

It's wise to keep that in mind the best you can - always.

If you knew tomorrow was your last day, would you find him?

The clock is ticking.......

Answer 5

No one can really answer a question like that, and give you the right information. It's what you feel in your heart and what you think is the right thing to do. It's up to you.