Shud i keep in touch wit this girl?

Question

i had this gf for a year and well things werent going as good as they could and we broke up and we were gona go to prom but then she told me no so i ended up not going at all she went to another prom but through all this she say she still loved me and wanted to be with me she showed it with her actions but after a while i got fed up with her but i love her dearly and her mom to and she is always on my mind when u devote a whole year of ur life its not that easy just to let it all go you kno...she is a very very good person as well as a friend but sometime i would hit her up like hey wats up with u and sometimes she would reply with a simple hi but sometimes ive gotten what do you want and she's a type a girl i wana keep in my life bcuz she cool trust worthy u know the whole package everything and i really love her as a person but she has left to go to college in another state while i stay and attend here in cali...shud i continue to talk to her as she is rude to me sometimes or shud i just let it all go..shes not always rude but sometimes it really hurts to have to hear somethings like that after all the things u go thru i was there everyday for this girl when she came back from africa and she had malaria and she coulda died and i was there for her so we really had a connection and things like that are hard to let go......wat shud i do????

Answer 1

You should ask her how she truly feels about you as a friend and tell her that you were always there for her and she returns the favor by being rude to you, and if you guys want to stay in each others lives then she has to respect you as you respect her.

Answer 2

Really it's your decision to make, although if I were you (what I will is completely biased on my opinion) I wouldn't leave her, unless things went a whole lot worse than the situation you are in. You both love each other, what would be the reason not to prolong this relationship between you and her.

I just encourage you to make this relationship between you and her remain, it's not as if you would get another girlfriend right after her.

But really, it's not a question you should ask, things could go wrong if you let others decide your fate, you woudn't be able to predict what could happen later on, would you? What I'm saying is, it's you, and only YOU who has to take the decision for this matter.

Answer 3

no

Answer 4

Only give her back, as much as she gives you.  If all she says is "hi"  then don't ask her how she is and tell her how pretty she looks, and tell her about your day.  Just say "hi" back.  Remember, if you only put half into it, you only get half out of it.

Answer 5

Let it go...sounds like she already has

Answer 6

If she really cared about you as much as you do about her, she wouldn't be rude to you, ever.  Let her go so she can see how life is without you, she might not like it and realize what she lost.

Answer 7

Well in ur story you said you love her and her mom and she loves you so you should keep in touch wit her