Shuld i call social services on my older sister ...help meh?

Question

WELL MY SISTER IS 28 AND HAS 5 KIDS ... ND THIER ALLF RM DIFFRENT DADS , WELL THEY MVED LIKE 4DAYS AGO ND WEN THEY WERE STILL EHRE MY SIS WULD BEAT THEM HORBILLY WITHA BELT THIER ONLY 3,4,7,8,9 ND SHE GETS MAD FOR THE STUPIDEST THINGS SHE DOSENT ALWAYS HVE CLEAN CLOTHES FOR THEM IT GETS ME SO MAD , I ALMOST CALLED BY I NEEDED ADVICE 1ST ND HER HUSBAND ONLY REALLY LIKE THE LITTLE BOI ND THE ONE OF THE GURLS CUZ HE THINKS ITS HIS ND ITS NOT . BUT THEY DONT TAKE SHWERS LIKE UNTIL A MNTH , ND I GET MAD ND SHES HITS THEM HELP WUT SHULD I DO I KNOW THIER CRYING OUT FOR HELP BUT I DONT NOE MAYBE SHELL BECOME A BETTER PEARSON UP THER

Answer 1

yes you should..if you dont ..would you want something to happen to the kids? could you take care of them? Its not betraying her..it saving the lives of five children.. God bless them..Don't leave it to your sister to change on her own..maybe this will be a wake up call. In some states the person who knows about abuse and didnt report is just as responsible..Please call for the sake of the kids!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

Yes, these are all signs of abuse and neglect, I would call them before it gets any worse.

Answer 3

i couldn't read it very well either, but if you think the kids are in that much danger i would think that would be best for them.

Answer 4

The way this is written, I doubt it is for real.

If this is a real situation, then by all means call CPS. They will do an investigation and keep your name out of it, so she should never know you were the one who called. If she's moved out of your area, you can check with your local office for the number you should call in the area where she now lives.

Answer 5

Even though I could hardly read this.

Yes you should call. They are being neglected from hygiene and if she is hitting them with a belt at those ages ecspecially it is abuse. Spanking a child on the "buttcheek" okay anywhere else the law will see it as abuse.

Do the right thing for those babies please.

Answer 6

Yes you need to call social services. My mother did alot of things like this only worse to my sister and no one would turn her in because she was family. My sister had been raped twice into drugs and alcohol and pregnant by 15 because my mother wasn't a mother. She deserved better and so do your nieces and nephews! My aunt has called in mine cousin because she wasn't giving her baby her medicine and lying to the doctor. They took her away for awhile made her take parenting classes and now she has the little girl but she is monitored by the courts. You need to ask yourself what you will tell your nieces and nephews when they grow up and ask why you didn't do anything if you don't turn her in. That is the question my sister asks.

Answer 7

I think you should call, and you don't have to worry about her finding out, because you will stay annonymous! Think about them kids, apparently she doesn't. Sounds like she needs to grow up, close her legs, and take some parenting classes!!!!

Answer 8

Call now or feel responsible when you attend one of their funerals. If you suspect negelct such as no bathing, child living in filth and children being beaten beyond spankings then it is your duty as a person with a voice to turn the abuser in.

Too many relatives think the kids will get over it or parents will change and then parent loses control and child loses life. Step up and protect the children.

Answer 9

do you have any idea how hard it was to read your question? how hard is it to type the A in the word and? use your vowels!! they are there for a reason.

now, to answer your question. it sounds like your sis is having a rough time with all of these kids on her hands. if you honestly think that the kids need to be taken away from her then call social services. but, is she honestly "beating" them or are you just a person who doesnt agree with spankings at all? if she really is beating them, then call. the fact that all the kids have different dads and the guy she's with thinks one is his and its not has nothing to do with parenting skills and social services will laugh at you if you bring that up for a reason to call on her. OTHERWISE...IF YOU HONESTLY FEEL LIKE THE KIDS ARE BEING NEGLECTED AND OR ABUSED THEN CALL SOCIAL SERVICES. BUT BE PREPARED TO HAVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR SIS IN SHAMBLES.

Answer 10

Her oldest is 9...I doubt she is going to change her ways if its been going on so long.

You need to be the loving aunt you seem to be and call CPS on her *** ASAP! Those babies would be SOOOOOO much better off with people they don't know who will love them unconditionally rather than their parents who use them as personal punching bags! Do not feel bad about doing this because one of these days if this goes on the way it is,one of those kids may end up dead. You ARE doing the RIGHT thing!

Please help these kids right now!

Answer 11

Yeah I think I would have to call about this

Answer 12

i would call them and tell them what you have seen going on. it is important for those kids to have the best possible care for them and that isn't it.

Answer 13

wow that's horrible i really feel for them kids.. it all depends what makes you think she is going to change when she moves?.. and has she always been this way... really think about that.. these kids deserve the best and it sounds like they ain't getting that.. pluse they will help her be a better mum if that's what she wants..

Answer 14

If the chldren are in danger, the yes, please call CPS ASAP.