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Question

i am a girl and am 15. my sis is 14.

i like her and even cant stay without her but she sometimes,actually most of the time (lol) gets really annoying and i get angry and scream on her. she does the same thing back and we fight almost everyday. sometimes she gets mad and starts pinching me and then i slap her (not THAT hard) and then i even don't like saying sorry.

my father even takes her side as she starts crying and i cant do That "drama"

what should i do to make our relationship better??

Answer 1

Well ...My half sister and I are so phony towards each other I sometimes feel like she thinks she&#039;s better then me or whatever, there&#039;s so many things that I dont like about her , but I try to ignore it  but it&#039;s so hard and I am the type to really say what I feel , but not in a rude way. It seems like every year we have this HUGE fight and some how we end up speaking again. But this time I&#039;m so done with her I dont even care , she has to realize that her ways can really push people away .

So, the moral of my story is to say that sisters FIGHT! , But if you love her talk to her , so you dont be like me and mine.

Go out more like girls night  shopping , diner, movies get your nails done you know fun stuff like that,  who knows she might get jealous of you.

Answer 2

take a video of what she does to u and show it 2 ur father

Answer 3

It sounds like you have a good healthy relationship with your sister, but it&#039;s just not good timing on both parts. You are both old enough to sit down and have a heart to heart with her. Tell her that you love her and enjoy spending time with her, but sometimes you need some alone time. Make time out for yourselves. Set aside time to get together and play games or chat. Maybe breakfast is a good time to chat about what you&#039;re going to do that day. Later on have some play time with each other. Playing video games or going to the park or a movie together. My brother and I used to have some great fun outside playing together. Doing all kinds of stuff. Making fun memories.  Make sure you let her know how you feel when she does the &quot;drama queen&quot; stuff with the parents! If she does this then don&#039;t make time for her for a few days and see how she feels. I hope I have helped some. Good luck.

Answer 4

Sounds like all of you can benefit from a family counseling session or two with a licensed psychotherapist.

What I see here is a bit beyond the normal sibling rivalry thing:  The two of you getting physical with one another is unhealthy, in more ways than one.

The one thing that you should do is not engage in anything physical with your sister, unless of course it is in the form of a loving hug or such.  The other thing that I want to alert you to is that the two of you are also being abusive of one another psychologically.  While you don&#039;t have control over what your sister does, you do have control over how you react to her and her behavior; and I strongly suggest that you exercise a bit more self-control and maturity and not cater to or give into juvenile inclinations.  Your father&#039;s relative passivity is disturbing; and hopefully the therapist all of you see together can get to the bottom of that.

Answer 5

I had the same problem once. Try to compromise the things you do with each other to build up a better relationship. Take each other out sometime. Have a movie night. Have some fun. If that doesn&#039;t work..... Good luck!  

Answer 6

hang out together make her say sorry to you

Answer 7

well just ignore her me and my sister used to do that 24/7 now we just yell but no more hitting

just ignore her  

Answer 8

Here&#039;s the thing - sisters fight. You both have to learn to control yourself, though. No matter what happened, screaming, pinching and hitting is not acceptable. Your parents are not going to be fair judges of who is &quot;right&quot; and who is &quot;wrong&quot; because they&#039;re parents, not teen girls. And really (though you might not get this until you are older) most of your arguments are over silly things that aren&#039;t really that important.

So... where to go from here. When you and your sister are getting along, you need to talk. What would be great is if the two of you could agree that 1) there will be no more hitting and 2) when one of you starts to get really mad like that, she will walk away and the other person won&#039;t follow her. If you guys can give each other a little space, you&#039;ll get along better.

Answer 9

Stop slapping her, you are older then her, yes it&#039;s only a year but a year makes all the difference - grow up.

Answer 10

try to help her when she is being mean or something and you start saying sorry