Sibling abuseee. lol,?

Question

So im the only girl.

and i have 5 older brothers

my brothers did some pretty horrible things to me.

i still dont let them live it down, or forgive them but still. does every sibling do this.,

my step-dad said were the worst when it comes to getting along.

like,

when i was 5. we got some a new washer and dryer.

and they wanted to know if i could fit in the dryer.

and of course being dumb. i took on the challange and i did fit.

they slammed the door shut.

AND THEY TURNED IT ON.!

i look back on it. its pretty funny.

but it was the longest 6 seconds of tumbling in my life.

& when i was 7. the threw my off the stair balcony thing.

there was carpet. and they did have pillows and blankets. but it was more than a 10 feet. and then only being like 4'7. it was the tallest thing. i wasent hurt. horribly anyway.

im surprised im not paralyzed.

or have some serious medical problem.

and they say some pretty bad things. like i was adopted. i was born with a tail. i was a mistake.

and the worst one ever.

when i was 10. my brothers told me i was the reason our real dad left us. because he didnt like the thought i having a baby girl. and 5 kids was okay. but 6 kids was way to much. so he just left.

so whats some really horrible things yr siblings have done to you.

Answer 1

Well when i was like 7 my sister threw a glass at me and it broke and a piece of glass was stuck in my eye.

Answer 2

I've always been the quiet, sissy one of the family.  So my younger brother... Yes you heard right YOUNGER brother teased me all the time.

He told me all the time I was adopted because both him and my mother have honey brown eyes and cinnamon skin color and I'm very fair and have very dark brown eyes.  This abuse went on until I realized he couldn't possibly know I was adopted if I was born first.

He also tells me all the time til this day that I might have gotten the brains but he's got the beauty.  I don't let that bother me.  He's a good looking boy, but he married a woman that looks way too much like me, LOL.  Actually, that's kinda creepy now that I think about it.  Besides, I know I'm not above average good looking like he is.  But I am d**n right pretty d**n it, LOL.

And my favorite of all times.  He threw a rock at me when I was 13 and cracked my head open.  Yes!  He's evil.

Answer 3

ehmn i have a a 5 && 15 year old sis && 1 brother whos 11 && another kid on its way O: fyi im 14 (:

-well imha make a list here when i was about 7 my lil brother took a tin can && banged it on my head && i tsarted to blead alot (he did it cause i won goldfish)

-when i was baout 8 my lil brother melted my barbies heads with my own hairstraightner

-my older sister emtied my yougurt && filled it up with lotion i didnt eat it tho i was 9

- when i was 10 this kid liked me && my sister gave him monay to follow me && c**p he gave me flowers from my yard every were i went he followed lmao i got my lil bro to pee on him weird dont ask

-when i was 7 they wanted to see if i would float && they pushed me in 10ft water ehmn no i didnt float i paniked && so guy saved me

- i once was playin tips with my sister && brother && she threw the ball to hard it broke my pink nail in half then when i was cryin she said its probally a fake nail

-they also told my secrets to the world && another time my dad bought me colored glue so tell me why they wrote "CRYSTAL SMELLS LIKE HAM" on my rug it didnt come off lmao but we dont like there no more

-well my thanqs are no were  close to how harsh your brothers are to you but i do have some abusive causins one time they tied me && my older sister to chairs && started shootin us with there paint ball guns O: pretty harsh but now all they do is like stupid c**p like hide my stuff write on my homework prankcall muy friends petendin to be me on aim but its all gooo cause im a woman of payback (: i still love'em familys everthanq but thast probally there way to show you they love you i mean im always teasin my lil sister but its just cause i love her but its also entertainin woop

Answer 4

thats so mean!!

i could never imagine doing that to my little brother, who constantly gets on my nerves.

but seriously, thats not even funny.

your brothers are a******s.

Answer 5

Its funny but it is not funny, and in all, look how great you turned out, what they did to you made you stronger - right - and you did live through it all.  I only had one sibling and she is younger, but I have older cousins who did all sorts of mean, evil things to my youngest cousin, who was my age, and keep in mind, we were all girls.  But then I had girl friends who were the only girls in the house and they too went through h**l, and we are thankful that they all lived through their ordeals, but again, I say, it made you a stronger and probably a more compassionate person, you were and are Blessed to have siblings and I am sure they love you to death as you love them.   God Bless.

Answer 6

My brother was the only boy in a house full of girls !

[we should have swapped]............

we had six kids altogether, he was always at our

cousins whom lived in the next street, they were all

boys and one girl ! ......she and my younger sister became

good friends.  So i really know what you are talking about

girl.  

The best you can do is put the past behind you, but you

said you still live with 3 !  maybe when you get a little older

you can find your own place.   In time as these guys become

boyfriends, husbands and fathers of themselves, there may

be a big change towards you and i believe, you will find some

closeness.  It isn't always easy.  But like i said a lot of the

past has to be forgotten, and also laughed at.

the thing is when you have been treated as a victim for so long

it becomes real difficult to be a positive person, i f you can get

counselling even at school would help, But most of all, you must

be a strong person, now there's less of them, stand on your own

two feet and stand up for yourself more often, and don't back down.

Answer 7

thats what girls are for isnt it ROFL, threw you off the banistere, born with a tail , a mistake? you could sell this for a movie plot, sorry I cant stop laughing

Answer 8

honestly if you remember all those thing it mean it was a traumatic time for you. Being 5 and the clear memory of what they did to you is still in your head? All i could say is that you are extremely strong.

about your question. My sister and I don't pick on each other. Just name calling and all, but if you ask about my cousins that a totally different answer ;)

Answer 9

Did you tell your parents?  Brothers can be rough but you could have been hurt very badly!

I have horrible sisters.  They always hang out together and have ignored me my whole life.  They always celebrate each others birthdays and give each other parties but ignore mine.  Then they lie to everyone about it and tell people I did not want a party! They lied my whole life and told my Mom that they did things *Like invite me to things)  when in fact they did not.  I always thought I just had bad memory until I met my hubby.  He never forgets anything!  I discovered they had been lying all these years and my memory was fine!  One sister had the entire family in her wedding except me.  I had everyone ask me at the wedding why and I told them I had no idea.  I later found out she told them I did not want to take the time to get my dress fitted!  That was the first I heard about it!  I finally got to the point where I just have nothing to do with them.  They began to treat my mother badly.  I do not really care if you abuse me but if you abuse my Mom or my hubby, I will not put up with it.  They treat her like c**p now too.  They give her a "birthday" party and invite people she does not know.  When she was in the hospital they would not bring her clothes or other things she needed.  The sad part is sometimes she believes them and they always try to make me look bad because I will not put up with their lies and bad treatment.

Both my sisters and your brothers act like typical bullies.  They take advantage of anyone they perceive to be weaker than them,  But just like bullies, it usually turns out that they act that way to cover their own inadequacies.  They are usually insecure and the people the abuse end up being talented, educated and very well rounded and well liked people while the bullies end up only hanging out with each other.

So tell your parents what they are doing!  (My Mom never knew until I was an adult and took a stand against them,)  Then try to take a theater course or a public speaking course in school and possibly a self=defense course.  The first two will give you the ability to speak up for yourself and the last one will enable you to defend yourself from being put in a position where you may be harmed.

Hope this info helps!