Sick and tired of being shy!?

Question

Look I'm totally shy and I'm tired of it. I wish I wasn't really that shy. So any help??

Answer 1

Find something you like about yourself and express! become confident in small things slowly at a time.  

Answer 2

Yeah. Find some strangers at a party, then strip naked and ask if anyone's game. After that, you'll never be shy again. Trust me on this one.

Answer 3

It's different for everybody... but just be yourself, and don't be afraid of what others may think because it doesn't really matter.  

Answer 4

i used to be just like you! i would be especially shy at school. so whenever you meet someone new, smile and be confident! or try to make a goal like " i will ask a question today in class" and keep that going! soon you will be confortable with yourself and other people will like you better! good luck! :D

Answer 5

I wish you could know my step son! I have done everything in my power to get him out of his shell and just be himself, but there are so many reasons why he feels like he can't just talk to people. Sometimes people that are shy have been through some kind of negativity in their lives and they feel insecure, so if in fact that is the case with you, just tell yourself that you are a good decent person and you can be whatever you want to be in life. Just go up to people and introduce yourself, the worst thing they can do to you is turn you down, but trust me you will get through it. If they do that remember that is their loss because you are a great person to get to know!!

Answer 6

I've been painfully shy all my life -your shy -your shy-there ain't no changing that-but there are things that can help. Smile when you don't feel like it -push yourself to be a part of the conversations that are around you-and go out with a group instead of by yourself more often. It's helped me out .GOOD-LUCK!!  

Answer 7

Yes.. Practice.. Practice... Practice.  

In short.. Start forcing yourself to talk to people.  Yes it will be weird at first, and yes some people will reject you, but that is life.   At first when people rejected me I was hurt... Now after all these years I find rejection pretty funny....  Meaning, practice truly makes perfect.

Good Luck and I Hope this Helps..

Answer 8

Shyness can't be solved unless you get confident enough, and get the ability to confront people without worries. Try to boost yourself confidence. I don't know how but once you have it I guarantee you'll be able to approach anyone with no concerns.

Answer 9

Its ok to be shy. But i'm sure deep down inside there is a totally outgoing person ready to escape. You have to know people are never constant. One day you might wake up and be outgoing. Or you might surprise yourself by doing something completely not shy that is brave. You aren't just one thing, shyness might seem like the majority of how you act, but you aren't only shy. Try doing something that scares you at least once a day then shyness and fear won't rule your life.  

Answer 10

It's ok to be shy, everyone is diffrent but if you try to change you may give a bad impression

Some ppl are born shy and others sociable it's just how life is