Sick of the drama situations how to end it?

Question

husband wants everything to be peachy when lady that use to like him comes around he wants me to speak to her he wants me to ride in cars with her wants me to be super nice-- what do you think? It's so annoying!! I don't want to treat her mean but I don't want to be her best friend either okay

Answer 1

Eww.  Why would your man want you to be friends with this girl?  Is she hot?  JK.  No way, I would not be friends with some girl that used to have a huge crush on my man.  So what when you went to the store your new friend comes over for a visit but your not there so she just sticks around.  JUST SAY NO oh and find and old crush of yours and ask your husband if he and your old crush can be buddy, buddy.

Answer 2

I am not sure what you mean by "lady that use to like him."  Are you talking about one of his old lovers?  If so, the problem is more your husband than the other woman.  Have a talk with your husband when the woman is not there.  Tell him you don't like this and ask him why he is doing this to you.  Refuse.

Answer 3

Ladybug, you need to talk with your husband and tell him how you feel. It may not be what he wants to hear but if it is bothering you, you must do something about it. Do not wait for the right time and talk with him before he asks you to spend more time with her soon.

Good luck!

Answer 4

Whoa!  You and your husband need to sit down a discuss what's going on here.  Something's just not right.  Why is this woman hanging around?  Why does your husband encourage this?

Answer 5

You need to tell your husband that he is married to you.  It hurts you when he wants you to go out with this other woman.  You also think she is toxic for him.  Tell him that you know he wants to be nice, and you'd like to be nice too, but with some people, you need to put your foot down and cut them out of your life.  You can do it slowly over time as to not be too mean, but this woman clearly has to go.

Answer 6

Introduce her to your husband's hot brother, cousin or friend, and suggest you double date whenever he wants to invite her for something.

If he still has feelings for her, he won't want to see her with someone else.

If he doesn't, she may get another interest to keep her out of your face all the time.