Sigh..this is sad...should i stop trying to date him?

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sigh..this is sad...should i stop trying to date him?

I went on a blind date.

And we were both so nervous

but he called me straight away after

second date was a little better

and he IMs me after

I mentioned something about a movie Wednesday.

but he has logged on three times today and not even a hello to me...

is he not interested...should i end it..or am i being an idiot

Answer 1

don't put so much thought into it. Just wait and see, maybe he is just busy. Go out and date other people in the mean time.

Answer 2

I thought this was a place for marriage and divorce questions.  It's really not that sad.  You've only been on two dates and it's not that serious.  Get over it, there are plenty of other guys.  Sorry to be so tough on you, but we're looking for serious questions here.  You'll look back on this in two months and think that this is really stupid.

Answer 3

You have only given it a few days... I'm logging in and out of many places all day long for business and if I dont' have time for non-business stuff, I don't say hi to people I don't have time to talk to.

He might have been busy...

If he is busy... then deal with that... that is how he makes the money to take you out...

Ask him flat out how he feels and drop the 'will he won't he' c**p.

You sound young... very young...

there are 6.7 BILLION people on earth right now... If this guy isn't 'the one' then you have a LOT more to choose from!

Answer 4

He's probably busy. Before the internet you would have been waiting for the phone to ring, right? Don't try and interpret his online presence = you'll go nuts! He'll get in touch. And if he doesn't - he's a jackass :)  

Answer 5

Just chill out a bit. Give the guy enough room to make or break the relationship. We give too much thinking as to what someone else is thinking and it gets crazy. Stop sweating him and yourself. Do your own thinking....how do you feel about him? Does he call enough for you? Does he please you? Concentrate on that for a while and let a man travel at his own pace. You will either step to his steps or move on.  

Answer 6

Take one day at a time and ask questions.

Answer 7

dating isn't that difficult.

it either happens, or it doesn't

if it's getting that difficult, then he's not the one for you. simple as that.

don't worry though, you now know that he's not the one, and therefore you can now move ahead and find the right one.

pretty cool huh?

good luck. he's probably around the corner or nearby

Answer 8

Calm down and don't worry to much relax in a bubble bath and don't worry to much if he's to call you or e-mail or text message you.

They are probably nervous too.