Signing over rights ?

Question

The father of my child has two kids one with me that is 5 months and the other is 6 yrs old. He does everything for his son. I mean go out his way to make sure if he needs something that he gets it for him. My baby is 5 months and he hasnt hardly seen her nor does he try to help me with her. I told him to just sign his rights over to me and we dont ever have to talk again. the problem is she dont want her son around my baby. I dont really care both of them are his kids and i think they shold know each other. But she told him if he has to choose. He say he cant choose but it looks like he chose his son be cuz he dont do anything for my daughter. i dont know what her problem is she has a boyfriend but she's always inour business.Im tired of all this drama.I m just ready to move on. He wont sign his rights over and i plan on moving out of state. I dont wanna get in trouble for taking her away but he dont do anything for her. What should i do? Because im leaving no matter what.

Answer 1

if yall arent together it doesnt matte if you move out of state as long as he has a valid address and a phone number to reach you. if you want child support you dont want him to sign his rights over. if he signs his rights over hes not allowed to contact the child send gifts or anything. so id think about what you really want to do. if you want them to have any sort of relationship dont make him sign his rights over. if you dont want them to have a relationship and you dont want child support go for it. hope everything goes ok

Answer 2

I don't understand this at all. you started saying "she" & "her" but you werent talking about your daughter. "she dont want her son around my baby".... who?, your exes babys Mom ???

contact your cities court system, just google it & get some numbers, call around and ask questions. good luck.

Answer 3

Tell him that he won't have to pay child support if he signs away his rights. That should do it. If he still refuses, you'll have to figure something else out. His current girlfriend needs to stfu and stay out of your business.  

Answer 4

you need to talk to an attorney, but from what i was told with my son, is because his father and i were never married and he was not paying child support i could take him where ever i wanted and there was nothing he could do.  but the same thing went for him.  if he happened to come get him he could take him where ever and i couldnt do anything.  so your best bet is to talk to an attorney and find out exactly what it is you can do.  best of luck to you.

Answer 5

I'm not an expert, so I think thebest thing you can do is consult someone who deals with these problems for a living. If you were to battle for custody, I'm pretty sure you would be the best choice, seeing as he hasn't done anything or barely anything to help support his baby. Talk to someone with more knowledge, and don't forget that nomatter what your baby will have a wonderful life! Good luck, and I hope I could help! <3

Answer 6

These situations are always sad and complicated. Sounds as if his ex needs a reality check along with him. Why doesn't he just hand his balls over to his ex! He needs to step it up and be a dad. The ex has no right to make him choose. What insane reasoning does she have? You need to move on with your life. Do you have full custody? Child placement? Do you get child support? You need to decide what is best for you and your daughter.  She does not need to grow up in a hostile and bitter environment.  

Answer 7

In most states a father can't just terminate his rights and responsibilities to a child unless someone is ready to adopt the child (for example, a step-parent);

Call a lawyer.