Signs that he still has feelings for me?

Question

My husband and I broke up. We havent seen each other for a month till yesterday. We were talking in his car, and he was acting as though we were still together, because he was trying to impress me...like he lost weight and got muscular though he couldnt do all that when we were still together. Then he tried to show off his muscles in front of me.Then he teased me, tapping my thigh and resting his hand on it, then touching my face, head...overall i felt like it was flirting between us. Then he asked if my next bf was lined up, i was like no what about you? And he said no, i was a little bit offended because he knows that I still have feelings for him (i think) because he was the one who wanted to break up because our personalities don't match like not same music, or whatever...i mean, after 2 years together...and he said that he was still attractive to me, and asked me to cover up when i go out, because he doesnt want people to hit on me etc, but i told him we were not together anymore, so i can do what i want,but he was insisting...and when he was trying to touch my private parts like just like that, im like hey stop it, we are not together anymore but he is like we are still married...overall i felt like he was flirting with me but then he told me the personality problem? he told me that he misses us being really intimate like in bed and he had a dream about us...

but the fact that he asked about my dating status and his ways to impress me with his muscles and his touching my lap etc, do those signs mean that he is still has feelings for me despise the personality problem ..we get along really well but music,movies types are not the same, i like horror,and he likes science-fiction...i mean do every couple have the same personality??

help please...i want to save my marriage but for him it's over...am i too late?

Answer 1

It kind of sounds like he is just testing you. He want's to see if you still have the same feelings for him. I'm assuming that if he broke up with you, there was probably a good reason, and therefore I doubt he actually still has feelings for you.

He is probably being all physical and flirty just to tease you because he may think you still want him. Show him that you don't. Be strong, and move on. Good luck.

Answer 2

Become unavailable to him unless you absolutely can't.  He knew what he was doing in the car.  He broke the marriage off but expected you to have s*x with him.  Then he would have to had run off somewhere, which would have left you feeling even worse.  Let it go for a while and see what happens.  

Answer 3

He broke up with you because you have different tastes in things? You can be two completely different personalitites and get along well if you love each other and ready to work on your relationship. Move on. He doesn't want to be with you but doesn't want to let go.

Answer 4

Sounds like he only wants your body.

Answer 5

He's a little late, he knows it. You are right on time.