Similar to the other question, what would you do if you no longer?

Question

had your mate by your side anymore? I said mine may or may not be going, so right now we are trying to make our relationship as happy as can be. Things are so good I don't know what I would do without him. How would you handle that?

Answer 1

Mine goes away quite often because he's an army man, but thats ok I am independent and there is always so much to do around here that him being gone for awhile just makes me miss him and we are like newlyweds when we see each other again.  

Answer 2

I always suggest to everyone that it is worth trying hard to salvage a relationship unless it is abusive. The one you meet next may be worse and think of the time you will have to spend to adjust and work on it.

Plus a break-off is a financial disaster. You really need to save every penny to keep a secure home and give a good upbringing to your children.

I say lady, try hard and keep your man.

Answer 3

I would think as far as divorce is concerned I would have no choice but to be as strong as I can on my own.

Last year I was diagnosed with level 3 pre-cancer cells, I remembered immediately when I found out a bad argument I had with my husband. He cruelly wished I would die. I was so upset I did not think and called him immediately to tell him he just might get his wish. He was in his car and almost wrecked.

In an argument, under stress we can say things we don't really mean. The Lord blessed me with a good man to share my life with. To be the father of my children. If he was to decide to leave me I would be heart broken.

But, if the Lord were to take him. wow, just the thought hurts. If the Lord were to take him a piece of me would die too.

Answer 4

Depends on what the reason would be for not having them near.  

Answer 5

Do something to better yourself, like get an education or further your education.  Do anything that will make you feel better about yourself on an ongoing basis so that you will learn that you do not have to have a man in your life in order to be whole.  That does not mean have an affair!  That means work on you.

I'm not sure what you mean when you say that he may be going away.  Does that mean a break up or does he travel for business or because he is in the service or something like that?  

If you improve yourself and you go through a break up you will come out of it better off than when you left the situation and you will be better prepared to face the world, will have an easier time meeting new people, and will have more self confidence.

If your Honey is traveling on business and you improve yourself while he is away, you will stay occupied while he is gone and he will return to a renewed person who is more self assured, happier and more pleasant to be around.