Simple advice on wedding night?

Question

My fiance and I get married in two weeks. I've paid for a night at a very nice little hotel in our town. It's a small town on the beach and the place is an old victorian style beach house that's been fixed up very nicely. She is actually out of town right now so I stopped by to doubke check on everything and see if they had a romance package since it's such a small place. I decided on rose pedals around and on the bed, small candles all around the room and jacuzzi, champagne, and breakfast. She's so special to me and I want everything to be perfect for her, my question is what else can I do? I've covered the things that I know she'd like but what are things (Ladies) that you would like to see or would have liked to see on your wedding night? Thanks.

Answer 1

I think u have it all covered! Congratulations!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

ok so after I read what you wrote I almost couldn't think of anything to say because it sounded so perfect. But I thought of one thing. It would be soooo cute if you put together kind of a little scrapbook of the two of you through your relationship and place it near the flowers. It would be so beautiful. You can also leaves pages empty for the future memories your two will make.... :) and since she's out of town you can ask some of her family to borrow some pictures, make copies and use those. It would be so cute if you got some baby pics of the two of you and show how you have grown....kind of like your life story and you guys can look at it every year and see how many new memories you have made. Then when your older you can show your grandchildren!!!! :) LOVE IT!!!! Good Luck!!!! :)

Answer 3

What you suggested is enough.  She is just going to be happy to be your wife.    

Answer 4

I think it all sounds super romantic and perfect, I am sure she will love it.  But if you wanted more, I would maybe have a gift for her.  Maybe something you made or something that would be sentimental.  Like something that reminds her of you or something from somewhere that brings back great memories.  Something that she can cherish.  Nothing like clothers are Gift cards.  Maybe have it in a big box sitting on the bed?

Answer 5

make a romantic mixed cd with your favorite songs.  By the way I think what you're doing for her is wonderful.  Have a great night ;-)

Answer 6

It sounds great. One thing to keep in mind you and she might be very tired by the time you get to your hotel, so be prepared that the romance you have planned might end up waiting until the morning. Don't feel like you have to do it that night (especially if you two have saved yourself for marriage) you'll want it to be just right, and if you or she is too tired, putting it off until the morning is not necessarilly a bad thing.

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Answer 7

Honestly - if my boyfriend did all that for me, I'd have a heart attack.

I think what you've planned sounds amazing.

If you want to go a step further, you could put together a music mix for the night and morning, maybe take a short class in massage and buy some nice oils to really pamper her....

hmmmm....

maybe order some chocolate covered strawberries with that champagne?

Other than that, I really can't think of anything that could make a night like that any better.

Good job!

Answer 8

Lots of Cuddling, Gentleness and night of love making!

Answer 9

what you did is really great and too ****** romantic :) i would add someone who plays violin to both of you before you get into the room.because that helps a lot to drag her into the mood that a lady should have on such a romantic night..and make s*x your last plan,and enjoy your istoric night guys..wish you luck and happiness.

Answer 10

How about some cologne for you to wear. Ask her what she likes, or ask the salesgirl at the department store. There's nothing better than a man who smells great, ready to go to bed. Maybe buy some silk boxers for you to wear.  

Answer 11

a love note/letter  

Answer 12

Slow and easy. No rushing. Sounds like you have really put a lot of thought into the preparations. My wedding night at a downtown hotel was special because it was special, but nothing quite as romantic as what you have planned. As a matter of fact, the day after my wedding was Labor Day. And just before dawn a whole marching band came to rehearse their appearance in a parade later that day. Can you imagine being wakened up after your wedding night by a full-scale marching band underneath your window?

Answer 13

Handcuffs...............don't forget handcuffs.

Answer 14

That sounds very romantic.  The only thing I can think of to add to the atmosphere is to put on a CD of romantic music in the background.

Answer 15

All I would want to see is the beanus.

Answer 16

Hubby and I were so knackered by the end of our wedding we fell asleep with out consummating our marriage (we made up for it of course the next day) So I guess I would say a very comfy bed would be the top of my list. Hope it all goes well and you both have a lovely day. And night

Answer 17

-a lil speech on how happy you are and how proud you are to have her

-a picture of the two of you in the room

-chocolates

-lots of TLC

Answer 18

What would I like to see? The portions of my fiance's anatomy which it would hitherto have been inappropriate for me to see. Really, don't worry about the rest. Fire is fun, but make sure they're not able to burn anything, because you probably won't be watching them.

Answer 19

don't sleep in the night, lol

Answer 20

s*x

Answer 21

Sounds perfect. Maybe something to wear to bed? Music playing, Strawberries and whip cream.

You already have a nice night planned out. You will be very tired so don't plan too much.

Good Luck!

Answer 22

Get her like a beautiful night dress i don,t know what there called but tell her to try it on then itz up to you........................................

Answer 23

First off....Congrats!! :)

Secondly, know that my advice is coming pre-honeymoon myself.  We're getting married in 4 months.

1.  Your wedding night is a special night in and of itself!  Anything you do to make it 'unique' and not like any other night you may have had, or will have multiple times in your life is a good thing.

2.  Do something special for her--help her out of her dress, give her a massage/rub down, take a shower/bath together, etc.  

3.  Do something cute and totally "you guys"...for example, my fiance and I sing at each other frequently--we'll ear worm one another.  So I plan on singing a silly song at him at some point just to make him laugh.  And that way...we'll always think of our wedding night when we hear that song.  

...and random little tips:

...if she wears heels at the wedding, rub her feet.

...lush makes great bath bombs--that make baths more romantic (there's even one called "white wedding" but the scents of "s*x bomb" are rather nice for that night...and bonus for having a scent that will remind you of that night as well!)

Answer 24

boquet of her fav flowers.  recreate a romantic memory for the two of u.  i know it's not the romantic but make sure u bring , umm. lube for the action.  wedding day can be stressful and things might not happen like normal.  don't put it out, but have it availible in case u need it.  

Answer 25

You really covered everything.  Good job.  Maybe some chocolate covered strawberries if I'd add anything.  

Answer 26

Oh, that sounds wonderful,but you left one thing out..Chocolate! Best Wishes to you both! :-)

Answer 27

Get strawberries for your champagne.