Since I lost my virginity to a man that was small in size... what will happen next time?!?

Question

OK so my former boyfriend was Japanese... and you know how the stereotype goes... Well, it was right. He was very small, but I still felt EVERYTHING. I'm assuming that I'm just built very narrow. Me and so called "boyfriend" broke-up so I've only had s*x twice. Now, I'm assuming that my body is going to "re-virgin myself" HAHAHA. So... the next time I have s*x it's going to be pretty much back to square one? Since I am not planning on getting another boyfriend for a very long time.

I'm scared! Would it really hurt since he was small? Will it be like I'm a virgin again? I didn't really like the it at first... I'm scared. Maybe I should become a nun.

Answer 1

You wont' re-virginize yourself. The more s*x you have the better it feels. It doesn't normally feel good for women when they experience s*x for the first time, so it's normal that you didn't enjoy it. It's not going to be back to square one, the pain is usually caused by the stretching or breaking of the hymen. If there was blood the first time, your hymen broke and that means you probably won't have pain the next time you have s*x. If you do notice pain while you're having s*x after being sexually active for a long time, you should see a doctor.

It shouldn't hurt you and you should relax, if you're not going to have a boyfriend for a long time, there's no point in worrying about it. When the time is right, you'll be fine, it shouldn't hurt and your v****a can start shaking in anticipation.

(And you can't become a nun if you aren't a virgin ;D)

Answer 2

Baah,

How old are you? Sounds like the s*x was not very satisfying. That happens with the first time , even the second, if  you and/or the partner are inexperienced.

If your hymen broke when you had s*x, you probably will not have pain the next time, but it may feel quiite different with a different partner.

The pain of losing one's virginity is in large part due to the hymen being ruptured, but if the next time is painful, the hymen may still be intact, or you may not be "ready" for intercourse, because your partner may not engage in enough foreplay , or for long enough prior to intercourse.

Please wait for someone who  truly cares for you, and for whom you care. Trust me that the s*x will be better if you both love each other.

Some one who really loves you, will be equally concerned for your pleasure and comfort as for their own.