Since i've had my child, every time i have s*x i have a feeling that i may be pregnant, why is that?????

Question

is this just a conscious thing or what. cause i take the pregnancy test and they come back negative?? I just really hate having this feeling overall!!!!

just the thought of being pregnant again makes me wanna vomit

Answer 1

Trust me, this happens with me too.  It more than likely is more of a conscious thing, the unreadiness to house another being.

Brea

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Answer 2

I think your last sentence answers your question:  "...just the thought of being pregnant again makes me wanna vomit".  Sounds like fear to me.  Just make sure you use protection...or a mix and match of protection (like the pill AND condoms).  Then you won't have to worry.

Answer 3

This is exactly how i was. i became obsessed with the fact that i could be pregnant again and every month it was the same thing of running ot the chemist and buying a test kid. They were all negative too thank god, but i was that bad that it just put me off s*x full stop as i was that scared of falling pregnant again. I already had 4 kids which none of were planned. So after that i started suffering from depression, went to my doctor and explained how i felt. He agreed that the best thing for me, would be to get sterilised. Which is what happend and as far, to this day, that i am concerned, it was the best thing i ever did. It also made me start to enjoy s*x again cos i didnt have to worry anymore. but that took a year before i could get it into my head that i couldnt get pregnant. lol

Answer 4

maybe you don't want to get pregnant because the man you have it with may not stay with and you think of all the bad things that can happen to you or you just aren't ready to have another kid?

Answer 5

Because now you know how it happens.  If you are taking reliable birthcontrol and are careful about dates  you should be fine.  

There ain't no law that says women who have had kids cannot take brthcontrol.

Answer 6

My first two kids are only 11 months apart-what you're feeling is fear!   I was so paranoid about getting pregnant again I figured that if one birth control pill was good then two must be better!  LOL (why did they ever give free samples)  Anyway,  I had an IUD inserted and had it for 5 years and knowing that I wouldn't get pregnant made s*x a heck of a lot more enjoyable!  Make sure you are on a birth control that you're comfortable with and enjoy this time!