Since my marriage is ending..would this be a good idea?

Question

I work at walmart, and currently they have sign up sheets for associates to go help out in south Lousiana after the hurricane rips through. It would be up to 3 weeks probably, and the pay off would be about $3000.

I have a 9 month old little girl, and while that is a tad long to be away from her, I need the money.

You shouldn't tell me to try and work my marriage out, I don't want those answers.

I am just wondering, is there anyone out there that would do it in a moment of desperation?

Answer 1

Yes, go.  That's a  great opportunity.  I would do it at anytime.

Answer 2

If custody is contested, you'll almost certainly lose custody of your child if you do this.

If you're ok with that, go and have a great time.

Answer 3

Honey, I couldn't think of a more precious way to earn extra money, than by helping people who will be in need of your assistance. Secure your baby with someone, keep your cell phone charged and near you  so you can hear your baby for motivation. Then do your best. Your baby won't forget you okay? Bless you, and good luck.    

Answer 4

Will your daughter be loved and cared for as well while you are away as she is when she is with you? Will it give your husband an opportunity to claim he would make a better parent because he doesn't leave her for weeks on end? If you are going to get a divorce, you need to think more than the financial aspect through.

Answer 5

It sounds like a great idea and that is a lot of money which can come in good use.

If your worried about your daughter just leave her with a trusted family member like your parents.

Those 3 weeks will go by fast.

Answer 6

I would and have. As long as your baby girl has a safe place to stay while you're gone; I know it will be hard on you but she's young enough now that she will Probably just think she's visiting who ever she'll be staying with. Sometimes being a single mom is about sacrifices that we don't want to do but know that we need to. Just make sure you trust and she loves who ever she'll be with. I have faith that you'll make the right decision. Good Luck and God Bless you for anting to help and make a difference.

Answer 7

i have a 2 month old daughter who will be 3 months by the time i go and do the same thing. except with an annual harvest. for the same amount of time two to three weeks. she is going to stay with a family member so there is nothing wrong with that you gotta provide for ur family somehow right!?  : )

Answer 8

For one thing you are doing something that charitable and volunteerism. What you will be providing is invaluable to those who will be suffering and in shock. As someone who has suffered through a major trauma and sudden loss of home there are no words for what you are about to do. Someday your daughter will be so proud of you. It will heal your heart and it will be good for you to focus on such a good deed.

Leave your child with TRUSTED family members. It will be fine.

The money is good. But desperation will be a whole different meaning when you see the aftermath of what these people will be left with. Oh you are so lucky to be able to help and spread goodwill and hope. This is going to be the storm of the century. I am sorry for the loss of your marriage, best wishes on your new life. I do understand the money is well needed. Props to you all around.

take care.

Answer 9

If you left your child for 3 weeks your ex can use this against you.I would be careful from now until your divorce as to how you go about raising your child.because he can turn around and try to make it look like something it isn't.And no this isn't paranoia on my part people especially in a divorce with children tend to get mean at times.If i was in that bad of shape financially i guess i would do what i had to do good luck to you

Answer 10

I think it's a great idea provided you have good, worthwhile assistance for your child.  Do the work, come back home and collect the paycheck.  Don't give yourself second thoughts to a good opportunity...grab the chance and go while its here.  You only live once.  Good luck.

Answer 11

If you have a reliable babysitter e.g. grandma, sounds like a great way to get a wad of cash. You'll probaby need it for the divorce lawyer.