Single Mom Is wondering..?

Question

I have NEVER been good with relationships, i just never seem to say in relationships for to long, i dont understand what im doing wrong.

Well I have a 4 month old, she the most beautiful, smartest baby and im so glad i have her.

I was just wondering, do I still have a chance in the dating world? Like what guy would wanna date someone who has a kid with someone else. Plus Im so bad at flirting and I NEVER get hit on, and im pretty good looking. I was jsut wondering for future reference.

And also where do u think is a good place to meet other single fathers and mothers

Answer 1

yes you have a chance you just haven't met mr. right and he wont care about your child or the fact that you have bad luck at dating.

and your not alone, I am surprised I got married myself.

Answer 2

you  have  a   great   chance  of  finding  a  great  relationship maybe  go to  the     beach  or  the  park  

Answer 3

This may sound weird and I'm not a crazy christian or anything but sometimes going to church you'll find a lot of single parents that are in your very spot and some may offer "support" groups for single parents as well as community centers. There is always the internet with sites like match.com where you'll list what you look for in a person and what you are like. This may sound bad but sometimes guys fear single moms and think that she is only looking for a permanent commitment or a daddy for baby. If you go to the bars, just be yourself, without getting too drunk of course!

Answer 4

I Have 2boys and one on the way, when i had only one child I met my husband and i was the same way as you. I was a single parent and never went out much. When guys found out I had a kid they would run but when you find the right one then he won't mind a child. I'm glad that you see your child as a gift not a curse, keep your head up and girl go out sometimes and if he really likes you and you trust him then youintroducee him to your child. GOOD LUCK! let me know how it goes. [e-mail]

Answer 5

I have been single for longer than my 14 month old has been around. I am so in love with my son that sometimes I don't think I need anyone else. Other times I feel so lonely it aches.

It is so wonderful you love your baby so much so just focus on that for now. Love will come along when you least expect it. That's the theory and I'm sticking to it!